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I need to get away from this place!

I was so happy…I dont know what happened…

I had gotten out of a real bad relationship but i was talking to another girl and she seemed like everything i could of asked for, but then my ex texts me telling me how she misses me and wants to fix things. She told me how it hurt her to see me or even think of me being with another girl, and I said we could talk and see where things went but that was it.

Well the other girl i was talking to, who i was starting to really get feelings for, is still upset about her ex. I’m here for her, and i know she knows it. We hang out and when we do we hold hands its a lot of fun to be around her, we even kissed at a point but she cant seem to get over her ex. I wish she’d just stay with me and give me that chance…

And this entire time my ex totally flips out on me about hanging with this new girl, and I went off on her because how dare her say this when she goes out and drinks on the weekend with other guys and she swears she hasnt done anything with the. But she’s being such a B****, and even though i shouldnt hang with other girls she thinks its cool for her to hang out with other guys.

I’m depressed, heartbroken, and torn between these two girls… I just dont know what to do anymore… I need help bad but sad thing is i dont know how any of you could actually help me…

ARGH!!! I’m just so angry about everything, whats so wrong with me that i cant find that right girl, everyone jus continues to break me into pieces…soon there will be nothing left…

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sticks_and_stones offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

get rid of the old girl shes just bringing you down. Keep trying for more with the new one, and eventually she will get over her ex. Just try to be there for her until then.

I hopeyou get through this and it all works out for the better.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

thank you, good to know someone actually reads this

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sticks_and_stones offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i try. lol. so….hows your day?

P.s. a suggestion for feeling better: doughnuts. i cant spell but ocassionly they help….ecspecially when they have strawberry frosting and sprinkles. lol.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

my day started off good but then went straight downhill

but i’ll try the doughnuts idea

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sticks_and_stones offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

days that start off good and end bad are sad. Im sorry. I had bad to good. hehe. stupid nightmares about buttons of death, they get me everytime! :)

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jacobingram offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

yeh, oh well at least yours ended good i think i’m getting use to just having bad days..

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

well it seems like sticks_and_stones had the same idea that i have. leave ur ex cause she sounds like she needs someone to fall back on if things go bad with some other guy. trust me, u can do better than her.

and wat coincidence is it that we had doughnuts today after the award ceremony thing. lol

just never give up man. this might sound like a bunch of made up ******** but its true. u never lose till u quit. stay strong and good things will happen. and u got me and the rest of the people on here to help if u need us to. all u can do is try ur best, hope for the best, and make the best out of wat ur dealt. i know it sounds like im just making stuff up but its true man. best of luck.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

ian your so positive, you help a lot you really do but i just dunno how much more of this drama i can take. Monja and Kodie are killing me…

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

jacobingram wrote:
ian your so positive, you help a lot you really do but i just dunno how much more of this drama i can take. Monja and Kodie are killing me…

hell man i just do wat i can. i live my life by a simple ideolgy (spelling?). do wat u can when u can. dont let other people’s lives push u around or drag u down. u are jacob ingram, not some numbered person, an individual instead of an object. its ok to sit back sometimes and watch everyone else go by. its even better to just move or remove objects in other people’s lives just to watch as they scramble around because things have changed. life doesnt have to always be serious, u can relax and let things happen. life is a series of coincidences that happen when we begin to see that the more we pursue them, the more they happen. take life easy and it will take u easy.

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