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i hate my older sister!

!! i really do i want to kill her..i wish she would die. i am never going to talk to her again. i have no trust or respect for her at all anymore… she is ******* crazy. shes always trying to be in my buissness. and trying to control me and my life. she thinks she knows everything. and everything about me.. she thinks she owns me or something..she lies all the time. when i talk to her about something she tells the world my secrets. shes a *****! last weekend when i was gone to the beach she went through my room! and all of my stuff..read my letters, songs, messed up my lap top and other stuff. and stole my things! she never has anything good to say and is always putting me down and upsetting me. we r nothing alike! she thinks the world revolves around her and all she cares about is herself. she tries to keep me away from the love of my life…and so much more…what do i do?? im 16..shes 20…

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 445 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (44 minutes after post)

What do your parents say?
Have you asked her why she does all that?
If there is no reason and she is just being spiteful then just do the same to her, when she goes out route all around her room and see how she likes it.
Best bet though would be to get a lock for your door and make sure when your not in there lock it.
Don’t tell her things, if she can’t keep things private then don’t let her in on anything.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (12 hours, 6 minutes after post)

she doesnt live here she has her own house. my parents dont care they say that i deserve it. they always believe her and take her side. i want to move out..all i do is get yelled at. im not allowed to say anything back to her or she threatens to not bring her kids back over.. which she would bc she comes everyday..she drops her kids off here all the time and doesnt even take care of them. and my parents r always giving her money which she goes and spends it on alcohol and drugs.. she says that wat i do is her buissness. im just going to try to ignore her completely and not talk to her again.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (14 hours, 22 minutes after post)

she makes me want to kill myself.. today she told my parents a bunch of lies about me..i dont even know where she got them from

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

**** no wat u must feel like i have an older sister just like her pisses me off she like takes my money n says she pays me bak i go ok pay me bak one day n she like i dnt have money i checked her walet she had the amount she owned me n when i took it she makes her bf take it off me n this isnt like little money its alot like $100

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

my sister is like that to but shes f***ing 10 years older than me….wtf she dont care about me and she kicks me and punches me

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

I hate my sister. She is 14 years old and she is always threatening to hurt me. Once, he said that I was a failure in life and that I fail at everything. We ride horses and I love it a lot more than her and I am very serious about it, and she started taking lessons a few years before me, so she is a tiny bit better than me. I once said that I love riding and she said. ” Yeah right! You’re just jealous of me because I ride better than you, fat pig. Now go and Die”. I couldn’t believe she said that because she only wanted to ride to beat me at it. She’s always cussing at me to. She listens to very annoying music and once, it was 6:30 in the morning an she was playing her music very loud with the door open. I went over to her room and I closed the door, and when I was walking back to my room, I heard her say that I was a b*tch. I hate her so much. She is always lying. Once she slapped me in the face because I didn’t let her read my magazine and later that night at dinner, I told my Dad. He called both of us to tell him what happened and she said that i hit her and stole stuff from her room even though I didn’t! My Dad grounded me that night for a week and it wasn’t even fair. Even on facebook, she is always insulting me on my wall and posting embarrassing pictures of me because she hacked into my account and she is always going on it chatting to my friends telling them all my personal secrets. My parents like her a lot better than me and it isn’t fair . She makes me feel like the outcast of the family and once I even thought about suicide. No matter how much I try to tell my parents though, they will never believe me. I hate her so much.

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jodiegirl offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

im in the exact same situation as u i have 2 sisters doing it they never keep out of my buisness an hack into my computer files and my oldest sister even stalked me in her car thinking i didnt know but ive been lucky i got my mum on my side and my dad because they realised my sisters wer using them because they needed a babysitter so my parents dont do anyhing for them anymore the only downer is that i get emails from them threatening to kill me and most of the time i wish they would so i wouldnt have to feel like that i hope it works out for you though =)

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

You know what I will do,I will tell my parents,if they dont believe me, ill start just yellin at everyone.!

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