Love help: long distance relaionship ……..

pretty-princess-

long distance relaionship …

….. hey guys i am in a long distance relationship with a guy who is in Africa. about 3 weeks ago he asked me out on msn. for a week he came online but after that he comes late at night and chats for an hour and goes off .. he has stopd coming online for like 3 days now. whenever i text him he replys but he never texts me. i also asked him why he comes online late night, he said he revises before bedime and when he goes to bed thats when he logs on to chat with me. once he was apearing offline and didnt talk to me and when i asked why he didnt he said my friend has got my password, ad i know it was him. is this guy ignoring me?? what should i do??

This open post was written 6 months ago | V/U/S: 168, 13, 4 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

Reciprocity (0)

Since writing this post pretty-princess- may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. pretty-princess- is a verified member, has been around for 6 months, 1 week and has 4 posts and 8 replies to their name.

Post Tags (3)

Love, Distance, ignore (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (13)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen

Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

Science Girl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

he’s not worth it. trust me x 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

Help me with: To ______

aeolian mode 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It seems like he is blowing you off.. He knows it is probably a waste of time chatting because he is aware you will never really see each other… I was in a relationship with a beautiful women from Spain and after two years of computer chatting, she blew me off when she realized we would never meet

Help me with: In one word, can you give me your deepest thought?

fractal.scatter 288 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I think you’ve discovered the big thing with LDR’s, and that is that it is so very difficult to make work. I don’t think you can pin any expectations of any kind on him.

Also, how does asking someone out on MSN work? I mean isn’t the whole point of going out with someone to actually spend time with them and get to know them and enjoy each other’s company? I know obviously it’s impractical when you live so far away, but that’s the whole point isn’t it; that you live too far apart to be able to commit to such a thing.

pretty-princess- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i am going to meet him in august tho

Help me with: does anyone know about -> mig33?

fractal.scatter 288 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

pretty-princess- wrote:
i am going to meet him in august tho

Are you really? Because it really doesn’t sound like it’ll happen. I’m sorry,but things like this can mean such different things to different people.

aeolian mode 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

OK, do it in public then…..

Help me with: In one word, can you give me your deepest thought?

aeolian mode 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

You also must be aware that people lie on computer chats… He may say he is meeting you and really plans on staying in Africa….. Find a stud muffin in the US…..

Help me with: In one word, can you give me your deepest thought?

pretty-princess- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

true true il just dump him

Help me with: does anyone know about -> mig33?

fastforward 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Long distance relationships can work if u have actually met the person and know the person properly! You are in an internet relationship and internet relationships dont work. fact.!

Help me with: She didnt even give it a chance!

pretty-princess- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

i have met the person when i went africa for a year ..he was my mate and i thought its gonna work bcoz i know him somehow

Help me with: does anyone know about -> mig33?

aeolian mode 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

First you say you are going to meet him in August, the you say you had been with him for a year…. Which one is it, I am confused

Help me with: In one word, can you give me your deepest thought?

pretty-princess- 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

lolx i went there for a year in 2006 he was my friend onlyy …then in 2009 3 weeks ago i got in a relatn wiv him on msn tht is. n nowww i will visit him in august ..get it :P

Help me with: does anyone know about -> mig33?

aeolian mode 10 #
Rocklin, CA, US | 6 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

I see, I hope it works out….. I guess now that your taken, us american men will be sad…..You sound sweet

Help me with: In one word, can you give me your deepest thought?

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.

Love help: long distance relaionship …….. - Help.com

long distance relaionship …

Reciprocity (0)

Post Tags (3)

Replies (13)

Invite Others to Help

Help.com Homepage