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Am I making myself too available?
? I think it’s stupid but I’ve heard that before. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a few months now. She seems to be busy at times when I ask her to do something. Whenever she asks me to do something it seems like I’m always open. I have a life outside of her but usually that’s the way it goes. I love being with her so I want to make time but I want her to think my life doesn’t evolve around her. Do I tell her that I’m busy when she asks me out when really I have nothing going on? We only see each other about twice a week anyway so if I start saying I’m busy I would never get to see her. She seems to be into the mind games.
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