complete honesty, commitment (but because they WANT to be committed, not because they feel they have to)
being too nice can sometimes be a turn off….it’s fine to disagree with a person but i don’t think you should ever purposely be a jerk
Some of my friends say that I’m too nice, but i dont know how to be an (email removed) I do disargee with a handleful of topics.
A one night man or a husband? I think women and men are the same. Someone they like and trust as a spouse and someone they are animalisticly attracted to as a lover…. even if it’s not a word.
nice, honest,funny! n def not a jerk!
we like surprised, be it a rose or a sneak-up-behind-and-hug-around-the-waist. we like being told we are beautifull, and have good personality traits. commitment is key, and never ever ever be a jerk. dont be over defencive, but we do like to know you want us all for yourself. your girl should be able to call anytime, anywhere, and be able to talk to you. however, you cant just bend. give opinions, have interest, and above all, dont let them change you. a sense of humor is great, and of course, good hygene. and trust.
yea don’t be the nice guy. i know from experience. Put yourself in their shoes, would you really want a girl who never disagrees with you and will do any thing for you just for a hug or a kiss? NO you probably would think this is weird …
You have to love yourself. every morning you have to grab your junk and say i love me. Im the baddest mutherfu***** i know. i’m awesome. Don’t do Pua if you don’t know what this is its a good thing.
You have to be you and you have to be confident in that. Go out and talk to people.
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ashely_l wrote:
nice, honest,funny! n def not a jerk!
lie truth truth lie
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we like surprised, be it a rose or a sneak-up-behind-and-hug-around-the-waist.[You have to be a good lover]
we like being told we are beautifull, and have good personality traits.[Don’t verbaly abuse us and tell us that we are hot]
commitment is key, and never ever ever be a jerk.[please please be a jerk but don’t cheat]
dont be over defencive, but we do like to know you want us all for yourself.[??? skip this]
your girl should be able to call anytime, anywhere, and be able to talk to you.[I like when your not available and i know you time is precious]
however, you cant just bend.[don’t bend]
give opinions, have interest, and above all, dont let them change you.[don’t give opinions literaly just listen, smile, nod… and please don’t change your self for me]
a sense of humor is great, and of course, good hygene.and trust.[be your self, wash every day with deoderant, and don’t lie we and smell when you lie]
downman1 wrote:
yea don’t be the nice guy. i know from experience. Put yourself in their shoes, would you really want a girl who never disagrees with you and will do any thing for you just for a hug or a kiss? NO you probably would think this is weird …
You have to love yourself. every morning you have to grab your junk and say i love me. Im the baddest mutherfu***** i know. i’m awesome. Don’t do Pua if you don’t know what this is its a good thing.
You have to be you and you have to be confident in that. Go out and talk to people.
soooo wrong. nice guy with pride is the way to go.
Anonymous wrote:
ashely_l wrote:
nice, honest,funny! n def not a jerk!
lie truth truth lie
wat is that about? lie? truth? truth? lie?
advice queen… ish wrote:
downman1 wrote:
yea don’t be the nice guy. i know from experience. Put yourself in their shoes, would you really want a girl who never disagrees with you and will do any thing for you just for a hug or a kiss? NO you probably would think this is weird …
You have to love yourself. every morning you have to grab your junk and say i love me. Im the baddest mutherfu***** i know. i’m awesome. Don’t do Pua if you don’t know what this is its a good thing.
You have to be you and you have to be confident in that. Go out and talk to people.
soooo wrong. nice guy with pride is the way to go.
pride =confidence there you go. total opposite of a wipy nice guy
downman1 wrote:
advice queen… ish wrote:
downman1 wrote:
yea don’t be the nice guy. i know from experience. Put yourself in their shoes, would you really want a girl who never disagrees with you and will do any thing for you just for a hug or a kiss? NO you probably would think this is weird …
You have to love yourself. every morning you have to grab your junk and say i love me. Im the baddest mutherfu***** i know. i’m awesome. Don’t do Pua if you don’t know what this is its a good thing.
You have to be you and you have to be confident in that. Go out and talk to people.
soooo wrong. nice guy with pride is the way to go.
pride =confidence there you go. total opposite of a wipy nice guy
not quite. your description of the a$$hole has nothing to do with the self respecting guy who is willing to give as ell as take, in the graciouse and loving manner required. i dont know how many short relationships you have had, but when your ready to grow up and find someone mature, feel free to follow some proper advice. all due respect of course…
all are interesting opinions. It just gets me, cuz my friend(being more girls then guys) always have problems, troubles, and so on, come to me for advice, a shoulder, or just some one to rant too. I dont have a problem about that with friends, its a bit of a problem with some one i just meet and give an ear after some jerk hurts them, and i think that their pretty, cute, so on, its after they tall to me that “everyone” thinks i’m homosexual or just too nice.
advice queen… ish wrote:
not quite. your description of the a$$hole has nothing to do with the self respecting guy who is willing to give as ell as take, in the graciouse and loving manner required. i dont know how many short relationships you have had, but when your ready to grow up and find someone mature, feel free to follow some proper advice. all due respect of course…
Look your wrong think about it. Have you ever known some one who you could walk all over, some one who buys you stuff… that boy isn’t going to get anywhere in life. You have to have confidence not this romance bs. You have to work on confidence every man should have it. Mature relationships come after 30 not now at all
Goldenheart wrote:
all are interesting opinions. It just gets me, cuz my friend(being more girls then guys) always have problems, troubles, and so on, come to me for advice, a shoulder, or just some one to rant too. I dont have a problem about that with friends, its a bit of a problem with some one i just meet and give an ear after some jerk hurts them, and i think that their pretty, cute, so on, its after they tall to me that “everyone” thinks i’m homosexual or just too nice.
Ok Bro listen first the flower icon… kinda girly not going to lie. Dude look at my post dude. Confidence is what you have to grow. work out a little get comfortable in your skin. LOve your self. you got to recognise that. wake up and say i love my self. Im awesome. what ever you got to do to make your self stand tall.
Confidence to women is like looks to us. No matter what they try to tell you its true
downman1 wrote:
advice queen… ish wrote:
not quite. your description of the a$$hole has nothing to do with the self respecting guy who is willing to give as ell as take, in the graciouse and loving manner required. i dont know how many short relationships you have had, but when your ready to grow up and find someone mature, feel free to follow some proper advice. all due respect of course…
Look your wrong think about it. Have you ever known some one who you could walk all over, some one who buys you stuff… that boy isn’t going to get anywhere in life. You have to have confidence not this romance bs. You have to work on confidence every man should have it. Mature relationships come after 30 not now at all
And what part of confidence implys being an a$$hole.
downman1 wrote:
advice queen… ish wrote:
not quite. your description of the a$$hole has nothing to do with the self respecting guy who is willing to give as ell as take, in the graciouse and loving manner required. i dont know how many short relationships you have had, but when your ready to grow up and find someone mature, feel free to follow some proper advice. all due respect of course…
Look your wrong think about it. Have you ever known some one who you could walk all over, some one who buys you stuff… that boy isn’t going to get anywhere in life. You have to have confidence not this romance bs. You have to work on confidence every man should have it. Mature relationships come after 30 not now at all
dumba$$!!!! did you even read my comment????? i said you need PRIDE. that means dont be a jerk but dont be a doormat!!! you people are so stupid!!!
downman1 wrote:
downman1 wrote:
advice queen… ish wrote:
not quite. your description of the a$$hole has nothing to do with the self respecting guy who is willing to give as ell as take, in the graciouse and loving manner required. i dont know how many short relationships you have had, but when your ready to grow up and find someone mature, feel free to follow some proper advice. all due respect of course…
Look your wrong think about it. Have you ever known some one who you could walk all over, some one who buys you stuff… that boy isn’t going to get anywhere in life. You have to have confidence not this romance bs. You have to work on confidence every man should have it. Mature relationships come after 30 not now at all
And what part of confidence implys being an a$$hole.
not i say, SELF RESPECTING and willing to TAKE as well as give! balance, people, balance!!!!
downman1 I have and still work out, live health as can be, come to work day after day with a smile on my face, lovin’ myself all the time. a gentleman to the end for me, confidence i have.
Goldenheart wrote:
downman1 I have and still work out, live health as can be, come to work day after day with a smile on my face, lovin’ myself all the time. a gentleman to the end for me, confidence i have.
Yea you probably have some but you need to have that confidence that swagger. A no bulshit policy. do the mirror thing it helps. also it helps to be social. Do stuff you like to do with friends, what ever you want. Bonfires, videogames, rock climbing what ever.
advice queen… ish wrote:
dumba$$!!!! did you even read my comment????? i said you need PRIDE. that means dont be a jerk but dont be a doormat!!! you people are so stupid!!!
Ok so you called me stupid and a dumba$$. Pleasant way to make friends isn’t it. But don’t be going around giving guys bad relationship advice because some twat cheated on you.
Goldenheart wrote:
downman1 I have and still work out, live health as can be, come to work day after day with a smile on my face, lovin’ myself all the time. a gentleman to the end for me, confidence i have.
confidence is something not easy to get either its taken me a year to get confident in myself, but i look back on how miserable my life was when i was a momma’s boy. its going to be a big change, but you can’t stop trying. if you need some help gimme a shout
downman1 wrote:
advice queen… ish wrote:
dumba$$!!!! did you even read my comment????? i said you need PRIDE. that means dont be a jerk but dont be a doormat!!! you people are so stupid!!!
Ok so you called me stupid and a dumba$$. Pleasant way to make friends isn’t it. But don’t be going around giving guys bad relationship advice because some twat cheated on you.
and you assume i have been cheated on? wow. great knowledge hon. just try to read all the comment’s information before replying. and dont assume. as they say, to assume make you an a$$. however your right about onw thing… stupid twats. so many of those here… anyway, my point is, a guy should be nice, not a jerk, but he should ahve pride and self respect, and not allow anyone to change or walk all over them. the whole point of saying yes to someone is cause you like THEM, not cause your going to change them… defeats the purpose, no? dont act like the bad guy or the good guy, act like the guy you think you should be.
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