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there is nothing wrong with you dude everybody gets in a bad mood sometime or other and if this is how she is going to react everytime you have a bad day then you should dump her **** and find someone who is going to be more reliable

take a break from each other to see if the relationship is worth it

Girls are just weird and shes young so she can change often, meaning extra moody. Ask her why is it that she needs time and if you havent said your sorry yet just do so, also ask if theres anything going on thats bothering her. Then just give her some space if nothing is going on with her and she still wants space.

As for you being depressed try eating better and exercising. Get out and get some sun(but dont burn lol), it gives you vitamin D among other things and that helps. Listen to lots of music and watch lots of comedies. If you think your clinically depressed see a doctor.

See if you like this joke.

“How did it happen?” the doctor asked the middle-aged farmhand as he set the man’s broken leg.

“Well, doc, 25 years ago …”

“Never mind the past. Tell me how you broke your leg this morning.”

“Like I was saying…25 years ago, when I first started working on the farm, that night, right after I’d gone to bed, the farmer’s beautiful daughter came into my room. She asked me if there was anything I wanted. I said, “No, everything is fine.”

“Are you sure?” she asked.

“I’m sure,” I said.

“Isn’t there anything I can do for you?” she wanted to know.

“I reckon not,” I replied.

“Excuse me,” said the doctor, “What does this story have to do with your leg?”

“Well, this morning,” the farmhand explained, “when it dawned on me what she meant, I fell off the roof!”

seriously you deserve better dude especially if she is going to give stupid ultimatums with no chance of working things out. quit wasting your life with her and leave.

Give her the heave ho and move on! She’s the one whos immature and selfish!

At the end of the day, she’s 16 and most likely not ready (definately sounds like not ready) for a serious relationship. 2 years is a pretty big age gap at your age, mostly becuase of the difference in maturity and life experience. I honestly would say it’s run its cause and that you should break up.

Neither of you are doing yourselves any favours by staying together and it doesn’t sound like she wants it to work out between the two of you anyway.

fractal.scatter wrote:
At the end of the day, she’s 16 and most likely not ready (definately sounds like not ready) for a serious relationship. 2 years is a pretty big age gap at your age, mostly becuase of the difference in maturity and life experience. I honestly would say it’s run its cause and that you should break up.

Neither of you are doing yourselves any favours by staying together and it doesn’t sound like she wants it to work out between the two of you anyway.

actualy that isnt a big age gap in difference at all lol

sum wrote:
actualy that isnt a big age gap in difference at all lol

fractal.scatter wrote:
2 years is a pretty big age gap at your age, mostly becuase of the difference in maturity and life experience.

And if you think she’s going to cheat on you, the relationship is doomed.

EasyLivin wrote:
And she wants me to trust her, and not treat her like my ex.

You think that’s unreasonable?

well yourthe one that pissed her off.

i think you should give her time. maybe like.. take a break and tell her to tell youwhen shes ready.

fractal.scatter wrote:

sum wrote:
actualy that isnt a big age gap in difference at all lol

fractal.scatter wrote:
2 years is a pretty big age gap at your age, mostly becuase of the difference in maturity and life experience.

I know I saw that part… age doesnt define experience or maturity i meant.

EasyLivin wrote:
I think im going to give it a few days and see how it goes from there. I just dont want to get cheated on like with my last girlfriend. See the problem is, I used to trust very easily. Now I dont trust that much because of what happened. (While i was in college I was cheated on for 4 months without knowing) And she wants me to trust her, and not treat her like my ex.

Shouldnt you explain that to her? and shouldnt you realize shes a different person? duh