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My heart is broken.

My husband and I are going through very dificult times. We are strongly considering divorce. June 9th will be our 3 year anniversary… I don’t know where; I went wrong! I thought we had so much in commend and wanted the same things in life. Now, it seems like we hate each other with passion. Although, deep in my heart, I love him, and don’t want to loss him. But I don’t think he loves me anymore… I can’t even type my pain, because the more I think, the more it hurts, and tears just fill my eyes..

Don’t know what to do, maybe it’s best we get divorce…

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Tamby offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Pray!

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lexihope offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

oh im so sorry. if u 2 divorce, then its because its meant to b. maybe he wasnt who u thought u had married. im sure the rite man is on his way. sometimes the first isnt always the rite one. im going through stuff with my bf too. he was tellin me that if i ever got pregnant, hed leave me. obviously it wasnt the person i thought i had met at the beginning. i wish u the best of luck. the rite person will come for u. don’t worry, life seems hard but things come around. it may seem like its at its worst rite now, but you will get all u deserve in life. if ur husband doesnt love u, then he doesnt deserve u… someone who will love him bak. *hugs*

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acastillo1 offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

All I do is pray. But, I’m going to leave it up to God, and pray for my heart to heal very soon.. Thank you.

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acastillo1 offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Thank you, I want to so badly think that way…

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Tamby offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I will pray you and your marriage. Take care!

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srnityblu offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Regina, SK, CA | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Sit down with him and be honest with him and tell him this like you have us. It may be that he’s feeling the same thing of you? You both won’t know unless you open the lines of communication and set some ideas together how you both can work this out.

Would you both consider marriage counciling? Your marriage is so young and I am sure that finances and the stresses of the world could be a contributing factor.

Learn how to communicate better and for goodness sakes, don’t use stress as an excuse to not be intimate. Men need to feel needed and wanted in a physical way… women love to feel loved by knowing that their husbands listen to them and know their needs.

Surprise your hubby with a warm bubble bath for him, and read him a list of things you love and adore about him by candle light.

What can he do for you? That’s up to you but you won’t get what you desire unless you communicate and put it in a way that doesn’t lay blame.

God Bless,
if you need to talk,I’m here. srnityblu(@)yahoo.com

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lexihope offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

acastillo1 wrote:
All I do is pray. But, I’m going to leave it up to God, and pray for my heart to heal very soon.. Thank you.

acastillo1 wrote:
Thank you, I want to so badly think that way…

yes God will take of you. he doesnt leave anyone behind and he will b watching over you. he never forgets anyone… just have faith.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Thank you, I will certainly keep you in mind..

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lexihope offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 9 minutes after post)

no problem… have faith. its all u need :]] *hugs*

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