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I mean i just want that warm fuzzy feeling ^^ i really want to be truely happy and in love deeply T_T i just want to give her all the love in the world and more if i was ever with her

Those fuzzy feelings fade and thats when your love is truely tested

if you love the person for whom she is then it doesn’t matter if you are in love or not.
falling in love comes and goes and comes again and will go again.
just make sure you can live with the other person even when your not in love.

Well thats not very encouraging T_T boo

its only realistic, falling in love is just chimestry.
if you love someone truely, you can do without it.

Even when my bf is driving me crazy and I wish he wasn’t here I still love him

grbghp wrote:
its only realistic, falling in love is just chimestry.
if you love someone truely, you can do without it.

I dont belive its just chemicals and **** because that means you could love anyone whos the same as another but it doesnt work like that. Commitment without love isnt the same as love and is nothing but an empty relationship.

sum wrote:

grbghp wrote:
its only realistic, falling in love is just chimestry.
if you love someone truely, you can do without it.

I dont belive its just chemicals and **** because that means you could love anyone whos the same as another but it doesnt work like that. Commitment without love isnt the same as love and is nothing but an empty relationship.

i differ “love” from “falling in love”.
two different things.
of course you need to love in your relationship,
as long as you don’t confuse the falling with the love.
if you can love a person even when you are not in love with him,
then its something you could base a relationship on.

Yeah I just miss the good feelings though. Havent talked to her in a long time so its hard to feel anything good based on that absence.

sum wrote:
Yeah I just miss the good feelings though. Havent talked to her in a long time so its hard to feel anything good based on that absence.

it can be good, and it can be awful, the line between them is very thin.
it is surely unstable.
blinds you, takes control of your actions, your not being yourself,
it can be a whole lot of fun for moments…
and it can tear you to shreds a second later.
jumping constantly between the two extremes, it is just not healthy.