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So the guy I like (in my other post) apparently my friends were hanging out with him at the pool yesterday. One of my friends told him that I put his picture as his screen saver (I did for a day it was for a joke) and that I was stroking his abs in that picutre (lies). They were trying to get him to go out with me (they joke around like that). But it was more like forcing… So he kept saying things like I don’t want a girlfriend right now, Well idk if I even want to ask her out or not cause you keep forcing me to, idk if I should like her anymore (cause of the ab thing), and stuff like that. What do you think I should do? (btw one of my friends told me what happened at the pool in case you were wondering)

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Idk what to do! So the guy I like (in my other post) apparently my friends were hanging out with him at the pool yesterday. One of my friends told him that I put his picture as his screensaver (I did for a day it was for a joke) and that I was stroking his abs in that picute (lies). They were trying to get him to go out with me (they joke around like that). But it was more like forcing… So he kept saying things like I don’t want a girlfriend right now, Well idk if I even want to ask her out or not cause you keep forcing me to, idk if I should like her anymore (cause of the ab thing), and stuff like that. What do you think I should do? Did he used to like me? Do you think he still does? and What should I do? I really really like him. (btw one of my friends told me what happened at the pool in case you were wondering)

skofield1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

i think that he’s not giving you very much to go on. he’s not really making it obvious therefore you cant be sure that he likes you. you dont wanna keep pushing him to go out with you cos that will ruin your friendship. I’m sure when the time is right he will ask you out. My friend has been friends with a boy for years and they both really like each other ( possibly love) each other but it just hasnt been the right time for them (work, uni etc) and they want to be sure that if they do try that it will work as they dont want to lose the friendship they have.

and stop your friends badgering him otherwise he’s gonna feel pressured and wont act of his own accord! he might even begin thinking ur a bit weird. so just be yourself and keep your friends out of it!

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (4 hours, 48 minutes after post)

You REALLY need to make your friends shut up. That annoying thing they’re doing, it’ll never help a situation like this.

You guys need to hang out on your own. Is there any way you could ask him to just hang out with you sometime?

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alinaxumai offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (4 hours, 50 minutes after post)

I could ask… but hes pretty busy with his sports and his family

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (5 hours after post)

Okay, but can you stop your friends? You really need to. They’re messing things up.

Maybe you could ask him to hang out with you at the pool or something. Just be yourself no matter what you do.

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rayemaye offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (17 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Your friends are not helping. If he is a nice guy and feels the same he is waiting for the right time. Given the push from the friends he may be even more standoffish. Great opportunity for you be friends and move on. See what the future holds.

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