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SensiblyCommon
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Someone I’ve liked has been dating this guy, on and off, for about 3 years.

She recently found out that he wanted to be “single” but was going on a date next weekend. This all happened right after he came back from a trip to Florida with some other girl. I was sorta the one she came to about it all. Because she’s been seeing him, she hasn’t been speaking to me in months, but here recently (after the incident with the boyfriend), I seem to see, or talk to, her every day or so. She seems to think this guy is her best friend and soul-mate for life. I think this guy did her wrong. I really like her and want to be a little more than just friends, but I don’t know what to do or how to approach it.

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LolaLola offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

It sounds like he’s a really awful guy! Tell her that, show her how special she is, wait for her t break up with him and then…wait for her to fall for you :)

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SensiblyCommon offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Well, he broke up with her after he got back from the trip…

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zetzer_ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Opa Locka, FL, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

man honestly, i dont see it happening between you guys,, at least for now. with the info you provided it seems shes only seeking support now and nothing else, girls like her stay WHOOPED to these guys for a while so honestly i wouldnt try if i was in your shoes.

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