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how do u make new friends when you move to somewhere where u know absolutely NOONE!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

if thats your real picture you will have zero trouble making new friends.
Angel comes to mind.

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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

yeah .. thats my real picture! but i am so freakin bored just sittin around and ive been here for a week and made no friends. ahg!! i think my problem might be my shyness

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

shyness can be a problem.If you see some other shy looking types
say in the library go over and ask them a question e.g. “do you know who the lead
singer for Queen is”
This should get a conversation going into who are the best singers etc.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

In your opinion who are the three best rock bands in history.

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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

alright. i think i can do that! any other suggestions if i fail at doing that tho?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours after post)

join a group.Many clubs in and out of school.

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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

I’m not in school anymore. i just graduated

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

well that makes it more of a challenge.
Write lyrics for a rock band?
Get a job dealing with people.Even if its volenteer work.

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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

how would writing lyrics help?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

you would find a band that wants to try and play your music.
How to find the band I am not sure but there are many bands.
you would meet them and go from there.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Take a song like sheril crows “soak up the sun”
study its structure and see how it fits the musical score.
then talk with a band and jam it out.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

it only takes one good song and you have made it.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

your a paintballer.Joint a paintball group or for your own.
Small add in a local paper.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

My son has a similar problem were we live.he is 19.
Has a good job repairing computers and high speed internet installations.
But there are no girls here.Population 1000 people on an island.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)
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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

oh its pretty there. i live in west palm beach, FL

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 45 minutes after post)

well you are a lucky girl then.
I wish you well on your quest for new friends.

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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 8 minutes after post)

thanks

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collegeboy offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

hey you know what (2 hundred days later)
a good way to make friends would be in voluntering, uhm, library maybe, in the store (get friendly with a clerk that’s not into sale, they are down to earth, not those seeing you just as a customer or cash-cow loll)

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tirvina offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Daym.. I juz moved too.. I have the same problem..lol.. I wish u were in my city.. We cuda hung out :)

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collegeboy offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

lol let’s all meet in montreal..haha

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

hey its tough going to a new high school i don’t blame you for being skeptical I’m pretty shy too, but i try to not let my shyness to get in the way when making new friends, its kind of a turn-off, but hey just be yourself and don’t go to the library you’ll only find the wrong friends there be a little out going its okay , live life and just make as many friends as possible, life is too short to live with regret and shyness an iam a guy

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