parents help: rant again…

buddharbelly

rant again…

okay so now my mom doesn’t want me carrying my own passport because she is convinced i will lose it.
but in fourth grade i went on a trip to australia.
without my parents.
and i didn’t lose it.
so now, six years later, she still doesn’t want me carrying it.
why?
why is she so protective?
she doesn’t want me listening to parental advisory cds, going to r rated movies with my DAD, or carrying my own passport.
its soo frustrating

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khalil.abdusala 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

how old are u?

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jh14591 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

I’m 24 and my mom is STILL like that. I have a child of my own now and I understand… it is just because she loves you. My dad had a motto that made a lot of sense, “You are always gonna love your kid, but you want to raise them so that others can love and respect them too.” She’s protective b/c it’s maternal instinct.

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khalil.abdusala 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

You still live with here?

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Caleo =3 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

i say, talk to her one on one. when ever my mom gets like that i end up having an argument with her there’s a lot of yelling and hitting and cursing but in the end i get what i want…however i hate her. i don’t think u want that kind of relationship with your mom so just try to talk.

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jh14591 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

khalil.abdusala wrote:
You still live with here?

Me, no. but she still calls to make sure I’ve eaten three meals, brushed my teeth three times a day, remembered to change the oil in my car, etc. Whenever I make a colorful joke to my dad she gives me the stare only a mother has, and whenever I make bad decisions she is quick to yell at me and then help me out.

I moved out as soon as I turned 18 because I wasn’t even allowed to spend an overnight with friends. I was never allowed to go to parties or drive outside of town. My parents were very strict.

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ihateme 8 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

well she said six years after 4thgrade so probable in 10thgrade.so like 16? anyway you should be happy atleast she doesnt hit ypu and atleast you have two parents who dont hate eachother. i think your completly over reacting. but anyway. when it actually get serious then think about running away your lucky if you actally are 16 you can get your own passport without your parents consent. stupid 14 year old me is stuck here without a freakin pasport cuz my dad and mom would rather kill eachother than agree on anything.

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buddharbelly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

ihateme wrote:
well she said six years after 4thgrade so probable in 10thgrade.so like 16? anyway you should be happy atleast she doesnt hit ypu and atleast you have two parents who dont hate eachother. i think your completly over reacting. but anyway. when it actually get serious then think about running away your lucky if you actally are 16 you can get your own passport without your parents consent. stupid 14 year old me is stuck here without a freakin pasport cuz my dad and mom would rather kill eachother than agree on anything.

uhmm, yeah running away is a bad idea.
trust me.
i’ve tried it.
i don’t reccomend it.
you may not like your parents but your better off with a roof over your head then living on the streets.

khalil.abdusala 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 1 minute after post)

jh14591 wrote:

khalil.abdusala wrote:
You still live with here?

Me, no. but she still calls to make sure I’ve eaten three meals, brushed my teeth three times a day, remembered to change the oil in my car, etc. Whenever I make a colorful joke to my dad she gives me the stare only a mother has, and whenever I make bad decisions she is quick to yell at me and then help me out.

I moved out as soon as I turned 18 because I wasn’t even allowed to spend an overnight with friends. I was never allowed to go to parties or drive outside of town. My parents were very strict.

do you know that you have a great mom..my advice for you to keep listen to her..you are very lucky person on this earth to have such that kind of mothers..wish u all the best

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