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Are love Triangles always safe?

Are love triangles always safe….or are they risky?

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (8 hours, 5 minutes after post)

What are you in that you feel the need to seek help? Anything the isn’t one man and one women can have risk. I think some are just silly. It seems fun now but when everyone gets hurt that’s when the real sets in. If your in one stop if your thinking of getting in one don’t. Tell me more about your deal and then I can have more of a story to help with. Write back ok. Elizabeth:)

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Admin Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Providence, RI, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

It’s been my experience that love triangles are definitely unstable and as a rule they never last over the long term. What makes threesomes so unstable is that at least one of the people involved is going to eventually insist on a two-person exclusive commitment. This will force a choice and that leaves the left over third person feeling hurt and profoundly rejected.

The only way you can avoid hurt feelings in a “love triangle” is if nobody makes a commitment to anyone, nobody is jealous, and nobody invests their ego into a particular outcome. I think you’ll agree that those conditions are impossible to meet for anybody that isn’t a sociopath. Love triangles can seem exciting for a while, but they always fall apart.

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carina63524 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

love triangle? nonsense. only a couple deserves to love each other. the other is just there to piss and to ruin a supposedly wonderful relationship. its impossible to feel filial love to two individuals so the other one must stay out of the way.

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