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I need to meet new people.

Well I’ve recently had a lot of trouble with two different girls, long story read my other posts if u want more details, but i’m so done with all this drama and i just want to get over them both and get out and meet new people.

I dont really go out and party so i dont get that kind of a chance to meet people, but like what should i do if i just want to move on?

I need help finding the right girl who wont screw me over like all the rest.

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

You need to look in places where you havent looked before. Are there church groups or interest groups that you can attend and meet people that have similar values? Do you have good friends that understand you and can help you look to meet others?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

I dunno really, I’m still in highschool so there arent many places to meet new people. I live in a small rural area

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Are there any activities with your high school? Any clubs? What are you doing for the summer while you are out of school?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

after school i must get a job, and i mean i’ll hang with friends after school but i’m not interested in dating any of my friends that are girls.

I wanna meet someone new, talk to some new girl that i dont really know

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

and school is almost out so none of my sports are happening and clubs are ending

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Are you working during the summer? are you travelling? You have to be doing something over the break, right?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

yeh i gotta work but i wont be traveling much i have a poor family

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Thats ok about travelling. What are you doing for work?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

i’ll be working at a small restaurant

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

is there another job you can get? You really have to make an effort to get out of your shell and not allow yourself to be a victim.
You also dont have to date anyone immediately. Not an emergency.

What about online? Do you belone to special interest groups? Religion? Sports? games? they are fun too

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

online dating? i dont really like that idea, and yeh i play soccer basketball and run cross country but like i said school is almost over so no sports are going on.

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

You are going to have to find different ways to network and meet people so you arent just working and staying home. Is there an online sports group/chat room with local people?

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (21 hours, 12 minutes after post)

im kind of in the same spot dude. but i would say keep your eyes open. someone is bound to pop up when you least expect it. maybe at your local supermarket or when youre walking your dog-something. i hope it will for me too =p

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valueopportunitie offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (21 hours, 14 minutes after post)

coffee shops are great too- Starbucks if you have one around. Go hang out and do work on your computer.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 4 minutes after post)

haha value i live in a small small rural area, my school has just over 200 kids we hav nothing like a starbucks around, but at least your trying to help.

And breezy i hope things work out for the both of us!

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (22 hours, 6 minutes after post)

haha me too =p its summer and we shouldnt be alonee.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 6 minutes after post)

haha yeh thats wat i say, i personally dont like being single and i’m ready to find someone else

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 9 minutes after post)

haha i loathe itt. and its been a little while =p

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 12 minutes after post)

haha yeh its been forever since i was single but i guess i’ll deal with it for now

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

i live in a small area too so i feel your pain haha

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

hey. i would like to help. maybe i can ask around while m working up in ohio, mowing yards and other ground maintenance stuff :( just keep strong and you’ll pull through. i bet you’ll have all the girls wanting you when you get to college so don’t worry about things now.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

lol your always positive ian, and it helps really but i still hav a good year before college

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

jacobingram wrote:
lol your always positive ian, and it helps really but i still hav a good year before college

haha someone has to be. lol and yeah you got a year but so what. just have fun and live out the rest of your high school career with fun.

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

we’re gonna be seniors, so we should be having some funn

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

lol yeh you both hav a good point, i jus wish i could do this senior year at a different school

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

who says you cant? =]

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

haha my mom

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

PARENTALS. haha. you should come to my school.

=p

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

haha up in new york? i wish

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

ill kidnap you. haha

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

haha ok sounds good to me, i’m sick of this place and the people who live here

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

jacobingram wrote:
haha ok sounds good to me, i’m sick of this place and the people who live here

:O even me? lol hey i know this is off topic but you know anything how the script is coming?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

andrew is taking care of the script, but nah not you a lot of people but not you and if it werent for the fact that monja is gonna be going to alleghany next year that is where i’d be going

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

so you two go to the same educational center? lol.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

haha yeh were both rising seniors at BCHS

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

ahhhs. =]

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

yay. yeah i knew he had the script but i didnt know if you had heard how it was going. and dont worry jacob, i hate this place too.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

yeh, he’ll hav it done no worries

and yeh i wish i would hav graduated this year to get the F*** out of here

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

jacobingram wrote:
yeh, he’ll hav it done no worries

and yeh i wish i would hav graduated this year to get the F*** out of here

hahaha i cant blame u. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

haha yeh

oh so how about a bit of gossip lol

guess who andrew was hanging with today while i was left to paint the cyclops head

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

hmmm im gonna guess…..erica? lol and im sorry but i was just sitting here thinking. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

haha you are correct sir!

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

hmmm how did i know? maybe cause he’s a dumbass and real faggish at times. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

yeh he can definately be that way, like a lot lately

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

lol well of course, its the end of the year. he only has one more day to show off. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

haha yeh. and dude like it makes me so mad cause he keeps asking me wats wrong and you’d think he’d figure it out by now.

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

hes an idiot. wat do u expect?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

some consideration for a friend but i guess thats a no go

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

haha i said “idiot” not “human being”, although most people are idiots. lol oh btw can u try to bring some extra pillows for the bodies, and any sheets or clothes if u have some. i only have 2 pillows for the bodies.

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

hey well im gonna go get some sleep now. see u tommorrow. laters man

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 8 hours after post)

haha yeh i’ll bring em, lol if breezy checks this posts she’s gonna hav no idea wat were talking about

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

hahaha she probably gave up on trying to figure it out. lol i cant believe we got a 100 on our play. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

haha i can, our play kicked a**!

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

dam you’re on top of the posts tonite arent you? lol i just got back from dropping sara off. so how you been?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

eh ok i guess, cant really complain how about you?

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

haha im good. me and sara had fun. we sat around watching movies and eating popcorn for awhile and then we went for a walk outside.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

haha in the rain? its been pouring all day

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

it started raining when we came in. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha well good at least you had fun!

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

yeah we did. sucks that im leaving for ohio this sunday and that im gonna be up there working for about 4 weeks

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

oh wow your leaving already? wat are you doing for work up there?

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

yeah. :( im probably gonna be weed-eating and mowing yards, and other stuff like that. sigh but its $10 an hour. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha that does suck but $10 an hour sounds sweet

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha yeah i kno. mmmm i have half a watermelon and a spoon :) lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha yum, but i’d pass watermelon does not sound good right now

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha oh well, more for me. lol so wat u been up 2?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

absolutely nothing haha

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha thats always fun. i just beat prototype today. its kick ***. lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

haha well good oh and its definately coming out for the PS3!

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

i kno. lol i wonder if infamous mite hit xbox

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

nah i dont think so haha, go PS3!! but yeh i borrowed infamous and beat it today, its pretty sweet

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

so wats there to do in it?

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

um well besides being a total BAMF throwing lightning from your fingertips, the story is absolutely great! The Bad guy ending is so sweet! Plus, theres just lots of sweet things you can do as side missons.

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 4 hours after post)

lol games like that are awesome. thats how prototype is. its awesome beyond words lol

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 4 hours after post)

haha yeh i believe prototype will be better than inFamous tho

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 4 hours after post)

yeah it is a lot of fun.

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jacobingram offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 4 hours after post)

haha yeh i’m gonna get it when it arrives to ps3

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 4 hours after post)

you’ll have a blast with it

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