i really like this guy and i feel like I’m a stalker o_o - Help.com

well, if he knows you like him then whenever you pass him in the hall or something just say hi. its less creepy! haha.

when you look at him and he notices, smile and wave at him.
that way, he’ll smile back at you and you’ll be happy and he’ll be happy ;)

Well as long as you arent following him everywhere he goes, then its fine you arent a stalker. Its normal to look at people and it shows confidence.
I’m a bit of a pansy and try to look but I end up looking away.
If he knows you like him and hasnt said anything about it to you perhaps he doesnt know how to approach you or maybe he isnt sure that you like him.
You should give this time and perhaps as time goes by he’ll admit to you he likes you too or if you’re eager and need to know now, I say go on and tell him.
You might end up feeling worse that you didnt!

it’s not that easy for me>_ I’ve been avoiding him the best I can ever since I’ve realized how I felt. When I see him, i run the other way. And he’s even called out to me a few times when he sees me but I ran>_ but once, i was with a friend and i noticed him so i ran and he called out to me so i stopped since i kinda just ran, leaving my friend and he was like,”hey, what’s wrong?” and i was like,”nothing”. omg then he was like,”why do u look so scared when u see me” and all i could say was,”cuz of my reflexes” then he nodded and left T_T omg. i feel that he’s never going to talk to me again>_> like THE END…………………………….

Listen Kidda

I stumbled on this site totally by accident or maybe fate. I am from the UK and I’m 36 so know what i am taliking about. You are young so you won’t understand when I say lifes too short. You have two options you either keep on walking for the rest of your life or you wisen up and do what you already know you should do. It may turn out to be the greatest relationship the world has ever seen, It could possibly turn out to be a couple of dates and that’s it.Or he may not want to know. But it could turn out to be the best relationship the world has ever seen.
The truth is sweetheart no one can predict or give you advice on something so important in your life. You alone have to decide are you gonna run forever or grasp the chances that come along.

I know i’m a stalker :D

xD sorry but this was pretty much like me too at first.
But youve got to build up your confidence and think NOW OR NEVER.
Just slowly talk to him, because what are you going to lose? You’ll lose more running and hiding.

But with talking youll get to know him better. I know its frustrating as hell and really nerve wrecking but… swallow it down and talk! I hope it works!

thanks. u guys helped (= well, i guess i should hope something happens in the next 7 days>_ cause that’s how many days of school left. i think i’m gonna try to grasp the chance that comes if any in the 7 days to come >=]
thank you thank you thank you thank you for the help
i never thought i’d get help from a site like this heh;;;

UnknownForever wrote:
thanks. u guys helped (= well, i guess i should hope something happens in the next 7 days>_ cause that’s how many days of school left. i think i’m gonna try to grasp the chance that comes if any in the 7 days to come >=]
thank you thank you thank you thank you for the help
i never thought i’d get help from a site like this heh;;;

U underestimated us :P