Relationships help: my boyfriend wants to leave me after 8 years of being together because i have put on 10 kg in the last 3 years. - Help.com

I say: Good riddance. You do not want him.

What if you get married and you get few pounds again, he will ask for a divorce?!

You should lose extra kilos because, well, being fat is not healthy, but do not fall for his ultimatums. You are obviously just “a body” to this guy, and if you are looking for something more you should move on.

Unless, of course, you don’t mind. Then just do as he says (but I seriously disagree with that).

lea.wen: I second that.
That’s absolutely absurd. I know how easy it is to make excuses for your man, and to say that he really is a nice guy, and that you’re in love, and he loves you…. trust me, I do it all the time with my boyfriend, and I know I shouldn’t.
I know it might seem easier to lose the 10kg than to lose an 8 year relationship, but do not marry this man. That’s just awful. What an ****. You deserve so much better. Besides, 10kg is nothing!!!! Jeeze louise.

well did he fall in love with your body? i don’t think you should give it a second thought.he is a superficial human being. do love yourself. you can loose weight if YOU want to,but please dont do that because he asked (and certainly not before u packed his bags and gave him a no return ticket) if he would love you , he would love every inch.

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lea.wen: I second that.
That’s absolutely absurd. I know how easy it is to make excuses for your man, and to say that he really is a nice guy, and that you’re in love, and he loves you…. trust me, I do it all the time with my boyfriend, and I know I shouldn’t.
I know it might seem easier to lose the 10kg than to lose an 8 year relationship, but do not marry this man. That’s just awful. What an ****. You deserve so much better. Besides, 10kg is nothing!!!! Jeeze louise.

hahah well spoken. she is making excuses isnt she? some pople are kind and forgiving.
when other people throw pointy objects and realease the forces of hell .really now. those 10 kg sould be written in the “find out if he really loves u” handbook for women.

why are you even considering to be with this bloke?