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I think im being stupid.

i just got bad news about my grandad, i dont think he is going to Surive this time. I think im being stupid because i dont want to talk to someone face to face about it. Im 14 and Confussed. Am i being stupid?

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usurper offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Your not being stupid - you are just not ready to talk about it.

But know that denial is just the delay of inevitable sadness.

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Darkness (and stars) offline Verified User (6 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Thats exactly what this site is for :)
*hugs*

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231me231 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i know exactly what your going through 7 people have died in my family in the last 2 years, im also 14. i never even cried at there funerals and never spoke about it to anyone face to face, but i could on this website. so wanna talk? im free any time.

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stuck offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

some people just need time to gather there own thought’s before they tell people about it your not being stupid x

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (44 minutes after post)

hey
my grandpa is sick too and he doctors are only giving him 21 months
so i am here for you in a way
i think you need to talk to him tell him about everything and just spend as much time with him as you can. dont go to your frends house when you can see im
i have already made that mistake
talk to your friends or close people to you like family

i know this didnt help much but you arent stupid!!!
from need help with not failing

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Feelings can get choked up, like a cord that gets tangled. You need to sort out what the feelings are. You’ve probably got a traffic jam inside. You probably feel certain things you don’t think you should feel… anger, perhaps, or some other “selfish” reaction that you may think is “wrong”. So you might repress it.

But anger, depression, bargaining (guilt, what-if-I-had-done-things-differently) are all parts of the process of grieving an anticipated loss (and the real loss that comes eventually).

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