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so.rock

My Mom’s Pregnant.

D.a.m.m.i.t. Ya, obviously im not to happy about it. I’m an only child, how am i supposed to feel?

That’s why i neeed some help. My mom has been preg. for about (counts) 3-4 weeks? And will give birth in january, around the time one of the formals of my new school will be. Crud. I never wanted a -baby- brother or sister.

So how am i supposed to react!? My mom has always wanted one, for the past 5 years. Shes about 35, so she’s been very sceptic about it actually happening, AND IT HAS.

Help! What am i supposed to do, act, think, and react!

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Anonymous #
5 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Oh Gezus get over yourself. How do you think you got here?
You have a gift on its way, enjoy it. Stop being a brat

so.rock 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Im in no way a brat, most people do enjoy having a new sis or bro, but in my way of thinking:

THERE ARE TO MANY GOD DANG BABIES IN THE WORLD WHO ARE ABANDONED EVERY MINUTE. Why should we make another one, to suffer through life, and why leave the other abandoned ones.

Ill never have children. I made that choice long ago, for there are other very talented abandoned children out there who need a family, and someone to love.

Think my way of thinking is wrong? Get out of here, its an opinion, and a strong one. It can’t be broken. Im not a brat, i just think about these things a bit more than anyone else.

Anonymous #
5 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

so.rock wrote:
Im in no way a brat, most people do enjoy having a new sis or bro, but in my way of thinking:

THERE ARE TO MANY GOD DANG BABIES IN THE WORLD WHO ARE ABANDONED EVERY MINUTE. Why should we make another one, to suffer through life, and why leave the other abandoned ones.

Ill never have children. I made that choice long ago, for there are other very talented abandoned children out there who need a family, and someone to love.

Think my way of thinking is wrong? Get out of here, its an opinion, and a strong one. It can’t be broken. Im not a brat, i just think about these things a bit more than anyone else.

If your mother thought that way, you would not be here. Get over yourself!!! Your new little sis or bro will be a blessing in your life.

BTW you have the choice, so does yur mom. Lucky for you she choose yes for you

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

well, once the baby is there, there is nothing you can do about it, just adjust to it, dont give your mom a hard time, cos shell be knackered raising another kid, try and help her out.

Help me with: Ok this isnt a help post this is an OHMYGOD post.

JDC 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 12 minutes after post)

i completely understand the abandoned children thing. i dont want kids either. one day i would love to aopt and help kids who need it. but you gotta understand,some people dont think that way. some people want a kid of their own. youre gonna have a new addition to the family soon,and once you do, youll prob. forget all these bad thoughts….

Help me with: idle hands…..anyone seen it?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 30 minutes after post)

I am, and do support my mother 24/7 and more! I didnt tell her “have an abortion” the minute i found out. I cried, and i hugged my mom. I WAS happy for her. I mean i know other people dont think that way, and by the way, i wasnt planned, and i doubt i was wanted when everyone found out i was born, sadly enough they oculd abort becuase it was WAY to far in the process.

And i will support her all the way. Im now thinking: New experience, i think i can handle it, ill try. I dont want to share my mom and it hurts me even more to know it will only be my half brother or sister. Ya, thats right, my mom married somone else when i was about 7 and she had about 10-20 different guys after i was born, so i have been crazed all my life about this sort of thing.

One marriage i had a step brother, 1 year older and i absolutley adored him, he waslike a little brother to me because i was taller and a bit smater than him. So……… its not an absolutely new experience.

Next thing is, it will be around my formal! My FIRST formal! my mom wont be able to help me, and that was my life long dream, my mom to help me in my first formal, and i do it all by myself on my last. Its heartbreaking. Once it can speak and do math i might even like the little bugger, but as a crying, pooping, barfing, brat, i DONT KNOW!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

omg my mom is 31 and pregnant and i already have 2 brothers and a sister now here comes another 1 and im anything but pleased nd im looking for help on how to react myself but my mother already knoes im unhappy so wat should i do? and as 4 u idk wat u should do i guess try and be happy and see what the outcome is..mayb that will help srry 4 the crappy help..im in a rut myself =/

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