Love help: I finally did it - Help.com

They say you never forget your first love.

It’s not forgetting that you want. You can’t really truly forget a person. You need to find peace with their memory. Remember them as they were.

I agree with twerty and plus if she is only in your mind that means she isn’t in your heart so don’t worry. but don’t lie to yourself if she is in your hert then talk to someone and figure out why she is stil in your heart. Just follow your heart if it’s over her then soon you’ll only hae her as a memory.

God bless,
Jessey

I think it’s the hope of what could be that keeps you going. Even if there is realistically absolutely no chance you will always know in your mind the vision of what you had…

If you stil like her then tell her. I understand you told her you never wanted to talk to her again but sometimes if we say something we can change the way we feel almost instaneously along with it. But think If you truely love her then you need to tell her she will understand and any girl that says she don’t is lying. We tend to try to hide our feelings so you can’t tell what we are thinking but we always want to hear you guys say stuff like, “Idk what I was talking about when I said that (in your case I never want to talk to you again), the truth is I love you and don’t know what to do with all these feelings.” I promise you any true girl wants you to tell her your feelings we are like that. It’s just someting inside us, we like to hear our friends wants and needs and that includes hearing that you really love us even after you told us you don’t want anything to do with us. Again all I can tell you is follow your heart it will never lead you astray.

With love,
In Christ,
Jessica