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i really need to speak to someone regarding a hugeee problem i have !

!!!

basically im 5 and a half months pregnant me and my partner split up a couple of weeks ago
he slept with this girl who is a complete psyco, shes turned into a right stalker
, we are now trying to build back up our relationship which is proving sucessful as shes shes meddleing and really stressing me out,
my question is shes claiming she is pregnant, he slept with her 2 days before she was due on her period and thats it, hes been truthly honnest with me about everything
shes known to get arround and aparently started telling aload of guys she was pregnant to them
but i want to know what is the percentage that it cud be my partners?,
she took a test 2 days after missing her period and said its my fellas i think because he is a nice guy and all the others are idots i think shes said it so she can try latch only a good fella
, but how can this be?
please help im soo stressed with her accusations!!!

PLEASE HELP !

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 399 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

If she took a test only 2 days after sleeping with him and he is being thruthful that it was the only time he slept with her then there is no chance that the pregnancy she has now is his.
The reason for this is that a pregnancy test works on HG levels in the urine, a pregnancy test can not work that soon after conception, it is about 3-4 weeks after conception before a test will pick up the right hormones in the urine to show a result so for her to get a positive result now means that she is at least 3 weeks pregnant maybe more

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I meant the time of the test she would have been about 3 weeks, not that she is about 3 weeks now.

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5 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

thankyou soo much for your advice !! , she stated straite after that she was pregnant like within days, with me been pregnant i just wanted to see how it panned out, shes a complete bully bull shiter anyway but still have to ask lol

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i really need to speak to someone regarding a hugeee problem i have !!!!

basically im 5 and a half months pregnant me and my partner split up a couple of weeks ago
he slept with this girl who is a complete psyco, we are now trying to build back up which is proving sucessful but shes meddleing and really stressing me out, my question is shes claiming she is pregnant, he slept with her 2 days before she was due on and thats it, shes known to get arround but i want to know what is the percentage that it cud be my partners?, she took a test 2 days after missing her perioud and said its my fellas, but how can this be? please help im soo stressed with her accusations!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

well your fella is safe on that side of things as I doubt even a blood test can confirm a pregnancy that soon after conception, for a start the fertalized egg would still be traveling down the fallopian (sp) tube and not yet settled in the lining of the womb so for her to say a test is positive means she was pregnant before she slept with him.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

~LazyDaze~ wrote:
well your fella is safe on that side of things as I doubt even a blood test can confirm a pregnancy that soon after conception, for a start the fertalized egg would still be traveling down the fallopian (sp) tube and not yet settled in the lining of the womb so for her to say a test is positive means she was pregnant before she slept with him.

thankyou so much i thought all this but just needed to be certian
i know how much she can really talk crap just wanted some impartial advice
many thanks

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Your welcome, maybe a lesson for your fella.
If she carries on saying it and tried to claim for the baby after it is born then she will need proof either he says it is his and sign the birth certificate. (Note~ she can not put his name on it without his permission) and also a paternity test will prove it is not his, just a simple swab on the inside of the cheek from him and the baby and send it off, results depending where you go will take about a month.
Even still, she is talking ****, no test on this planet can show up that early, the earliest mine ever showed up were just under 4 weeks pregnant and the doctor told me that it take at leas 3 weeks for the hormone levels to be at a detectable level.

Also, IF she is pregnant another tell tail sign is her due date for the baby.

Anyhow, glad to have helped, goodluck.

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