boyfriend help: should I dump my bf, he 16 and im 18! - Help.com



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should I dump my bf, he 16 and im 18!

I live with him because i got kick out! I kinda want someone my own age
someone i can look up to! I want someone more like me!

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YourAnIdiotLo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

That boys got game lol.

Jk.

Well, no im not jk. But um, why? Because you 2 years apart? What if your 24 and hes 22? what if your 34 and hes 32?? There really isnt a big difference once you get beyond like 20 lol

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david_lynch200 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

no! if you love him and he loves you age shouldn’t matter… that much.
a good friend of mine has a 18 yr old girlfriend (and hes 16, his girlfriends just got moved out too.. names not tamara is it? lol)
but you said ‘’more like me'’… are you not really happy with him?

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Meowie offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

If you’re happy with him then I don’t see why you should break up with him. Just my opinion though, so if you decide to break up with him just remember there are plenty more fish in the sea… and they’re probably the age you’re looking for.

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KailaVengeance. offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

To me, age is just a number.. i dont think you should break up with him just becuz he is 2 years older than you,
if your happy with him it shouldnt matter. Right??

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x1XdarkfairieX4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

i’m in exactly the same age situation. i’m turning 18 in a few days and my boyfriend’s turning 16 in a few weeks. personally, i believe that if you’re happy with your boyfriend, you shouldn’t leave him. age isn’t really that big of a deal.

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