Mind help: Been six days now since i split an i know my ex will be out tonight, why i’m stuck in my bedroom thinking of her.

ajw30

Been six days now since i split an i know my ex will be out tonight, why i’m stuck in my bedroom thinking of her.

Life seems so unfair sometimes i’m not moaning but it really does. I haven’t got a massive amount of friends so now that she gone i’ll spend most of my time back on the computer.
Ok I have studying to do an i know i’ve got to get on with my life.
But do you argee with the saying you get out what you put in???? i think its bull i’ve put loads in to my relationship and now i feel i’ve got nothing. I’m a great believer of control your mind an you be able to do anything, but when the mind is lost it will and can destroy you!!!

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Moro #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Are you pretending to be stupid, or are you really just that illiterate?

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ajw30 15 #
Southfleet, G5, GB | 6 months ago (23 minutes after post)

How about i’m not, an i’m quite emotional at the moment an have things running through my head when writing. If i wanted an english lesson i wouldn’t come on here.

Help me with: It been nearly three months now since i split with my ex, an i’m still crying everyday.

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been six day now since split i know my ex will be out tonight, why i’m stuck in my bedroomt thinking of her. Life seem so unfair sometime i’m not moaning but its just really does. I haven’t got a massive amount of friend so now that she gone i spend most of my time back on the computer. I have studying to an i know i got to get on with my life. But do you argee the saying you get out what you put it, That bull i put in loads and now got nothing. I one to believe you control your mind your be able to do anything but when the mind lost it can destroy ya.

Help me with: It been nearly three months now since i split with my ex, an i’m still crying everyday.

fcell04 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (39 minutes after post)

just concentrate on your studies dude. Not every relationship works out no matter how much effort you put in. Look on the bright side isnt it better that its over now rather then 5-10 years down the line? Why not just call up some mates even if it is just 1 or 2 and go out drinking this weekend or go to the cinema. Or do some of your hobbies dont just sit at home otherwise you will just be moping around feeling sorry for yourself. I know it sucks now but the pain lessens with each day and there are plenty of fish in the sea.

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Life isn’t fair. So that’s probably why it seems that way.

I’d like to think you get what you give, but as far as I’ve seen - that’s not always the case.

All you can do is find out where you went wrong, regroup, and try again.

Trial an error is where its at.

Help me with: People really need to chill.

ajw30 15 #
Southfleet, G5, GB | 6 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Thanks fcell04 i got to try its getting that motivation back again.

Help me with: It been nearly three months now since i split with my ex, an i’m still crying everyday.

fcell04 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (47 minutes after post)

yeah dont worry about it dude. Everyone has been there. Just try and have some fun this weekend. take care.

ajw30 15 #
Southfleet, G5, GB | 6 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Yer learn by your mistakes, when i always split i think to myself the day after, did i say something stupid or made myself look like a fool cos i was hurting that much. Basically crying in front of her brother, but now i think no it showed i cared and love her alot.

Help me with: It been nearly three months now since i split with my ex, an i’m still crying everyday.

ajw30 15 #
Southfleet, G5, GB | 6 months ago (51 minutes after post)

You to fcell04, hope all is well in your life

Help me with: It been nearly three months now since i split with my ex, an i’m still crying everyday.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

Love is hell. My 2nd go round and I don’t know where my wife is. She left a week and a half ago and all I get is a text every 5 days saying checking in. All good. All good for who? Not me. You left me and say all good?!? Time heals all wounds. Now is what sucks. I’m there too, right now.

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ajw30 15 #
Southfleet, G5, GB | 6 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Hard one my friend very hard, i can’t even speak to my ex its the only way i can move foward,
because in the back off my head i will be going she wants to get back with me or i want her back. No contact is hard but for me its makes it easier. Sorry to hear your situation i know its hard and just want it to pass. An everyone says the same thing it takes time , annoying i know but its the truth

Help me with: It been nearly three months now since i split with my ex, an i’m still crying everyday.

usurper 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

sandbar- wrote:
Love is hell. My 2nd go round and I don’t know where my wife is. She left a week and a half ago and all I get is a text every 5 days saying checking in. All good. All good for who? Not me. You left me and say all good?!? Time heals all wounds. Now is what sucks. I’m there too, right now.

She doesn’t want you to worry about if shes hurt or anything - that’s saying something.

Help me with: People really need to chill.

ajw30 15 #
Southfleet, G5, GB | 6 months ago (10 hours, 25 minutes after post)

but surely its really hurting the man

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