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He never even liked me so why do I feel like this?

I’ve had a huge crush on this guy all year. He would stare at me, but then look away really fast when I saw him. He could never speak to me and the few times that he did he looked at the ground or the wall. His friends even the ones I don’t know started acting weird around me. If I walked by them they would tell him and he would look at me and turn away really fast. If I was with his group of friends he would stay off to the side and wait until I left. He would do some other similar things. I never told anyone that I liked him so he didn’t know. I took these as signs that he liked me. I’m really shy and I was even worse around him. I kept hoping that one day he would ask me out. Everyday in class I thought it would be the day. I tried to bring myself to say something, but I couldn’t. Then on the last day of school he never said anything. I felt like crying. I couldn’t even look at him in the halls. Now I can’t stop thinking about him and to make it worse it seems every time I watch TV or do something there is a guy with the same name. I’ve had crushes on guys and the school year ended with nothing happening and I never felt like this. Obviously he didn’t like me or I think he would have done something so I don’t know why I let it bother me. Why do I feel like this? How do I stop feeling like this?

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MiaMags offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Maybe you should just tell him, in person and not around anyone

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

maybe he’s as shy as you are or just wants to be friends cuz he thinks that if he gets too close to you then he’ll break ur heart and he maybe doesnt want to do that i know it sucks cuz i had to deal with it last year but i guess the best way to get over it is hang out with other guys and pick out his flaws, after a while when u have a list of all those flaws u def will get over him quickly

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

You know, thinking about it. Since you are friends with his friends, maybe ask one that you know that will tell you the truth and ask him in confidence

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

unfortunately crushes come and go and your going to get your heart broken alot of times during your life but the good news is that it only needs to work out once for you to be happy for the rest of your life. I know its hard but it will get easier as time goes on and also there will be plenty of other blokes who will take your fancy. Just take each day as it comes. best of luck

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Southfleet, G5, GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

from a bloke views, he could be as shy as you an just waiting for you to say something. Yer ask a mutal friend better still just ask him.
But that coming from a bloke that does the same thing that you do.
Don’t let that opportunity pass you, This is no dress rehursal its the real and we all makes mistake don’t worry go for it, May loss a bit of self pride but on the pos sode you may gain the bloke you like

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