Love help: My girlfriend and I had a horrible breakup…

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My girlfriend and I had a horrible breakup…

I recently abandoned all angst and hate that I was feeling toward her and turned to forgiveness. She cut me off instantly without saying a word and I think she cheated on me too. Regardless I wrote her a letter and spoke with her letting her know I forgave her. I also spoke about us and I just wanted her to know that I won’t harbor any more anger toward her. Now I think she is a little baffled because she is seeing how noble I am. I still don’t know the reason why she left me but she has had some poor prior relationships with abuse involved. I almost get the feeling by what she has told me that she tends to push good things away. I told her I’m here and if she figures it out not to hesitate to come back… I have to let her go and leave it up to fate, god etc. Has anyone had success in someone they loved so dearly coming back to them? She did hurt me but I truly believe she is hiding inner pain herself. I hope I did the right thing, and I don’t expect her to come back to me. Are there any women out there that have been this way toward a good man? what do you think?

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JaneRoe 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

this seems like a dangerous situation for you emotionally. move on and work on you. if she comes back then you can start where you both are. but if she does have a history of emotional or psychological issues that causes her to be self destructive, she’ll need more than just a relationship with you to work through them.

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fumanchuster 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I like ya bro. It seems in reality that men are more emotional than women. They just act way betta like nothing bothers them to get u more upset. Find ways to distract you from thinking of her or avoid contact with her. Play her games to arouse the interest and maybe you’ll find true happiness :)

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I think you need to find someone more emotionally stable….

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

you are being a freaking idiot, who would want to get back with a girlfriend who cheats on them and by the way she’s probably a lesbian and having another guys baby. So did you think about that, you might actually be better off without her, naah jj tehe she’s a ***** get over it.

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