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Can I win him back?

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Is there a fool proof way to get back with my ex? Something that will help him realise that we only hit a hard spot in our relationship and it has been easily resolved?

There was a misunderstanding between my ex and I ( I must admit, it was mainly my fault). We were great until well… we went a little too far in our sexual life. It wasnt actually sex haha but we had both lied to each other about whether or not we were ready for it.

I’d like to get with him again and prove that sex isn’t all I saw or wanted from him.

So…is there? A fool proof plan or way to achieve this?

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Raven89 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Wow you kinda sound like my ex girlfriend.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

So, in order to win him back perhaps… I should get rid of which flaw? Was your ex a bad person (as well)?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

No, my ex wasn’t a bad person, she just lost the ability to talk to me. I loved her with all my heart but she just didn’t feel the same.

Sorry. Anyways, back to your problem. No, unfortunately there is no fool proof plan. Communication is key. Tell him how you feel.

I would warn that if your ex was a bad person, then you should probably stay away.

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mrs_moose offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Okay wow. Thankyou.
That..really is somewhat of my ex’s and mine’s problem. I had a hard time talking to him. He was a bit hard to communicate with sometimes so I mixed it up and assumed he wanted something a bit sexual.

Thanks a lot.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

See my problem was a bit different. She wanted to be a little more physical, but she never gave me any indication that that was what she wanted. I’m a good guy, so I was just trying to stay within safe boundaries, thinking that I was maybe stretching them a little too far. I was just being respectful, but I’m being convinced more and more that thats not what girls want anymore.

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