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I’m glad you are asking for advice. First off, you are way too young to have anybody’s baby. How would you take care of it? You’re still being taken care of by your own parents. Feel free to stand your ground and tell him you don’t want to have a baby. If he says he’ll break up with you, then you’ll know that he’s only intersted in sex and not in you as a person - and that’s not a reason to stay in a relationship.

Are you even protecting yourself? Never have sex with a boy who doesn’t use a condom. Having a baby at 13 would literally ruin your future. Don’t let this happen to you!

Your boyfriend isn’t too wise if he’s talking about making babies when he doesn’t even have a job. You should get some facts about safe sex and what pregnancy really involves for a teen. Explore the links in these two websites and at least you’ll be informed about sex, STDs and pregnancy.

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sexabs…
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sexu…

What does this have to do with the idea of you having his child? The point is, be smart and wait to have children if you decide you want to, and if you continue to sleep with him make sure you continue to use protection. Your mom will find out at one point or another, they always do- I would advise you to throw the wrapper away next time.

Glad you are using protection. However, it sounds to me as if it’s just a matter of time before you are caught having sex. Are you ready to face the consequences? Your mom probably doesn’t know yet - because if she did, I bet she’d insist you stay away from your boyfriend. This may seem unfair, but look at it from a practical point of view. If you get accidentally pregnant, you are too young to raise the baby so it really means imposing your baby on your mom. Your mom loves you and will love her grandkids, but that isn’t the same thing as wanting the financial burden of taking care of a new baby.

It sounds to me like your boyfriend would like to use this baby as a way of controlling you afterward. I’ve known some guys that believe that a baby is a way of ’staking their claim’.

A good point Ndn. Glad you made it.

There’s no reason to rush into getting pregnant. If you two are really meant to be together, he’ll wait until you’re both old enough to support a child. Plus… I don’t know about your house, but if my parents ever thought i’d had sex in their bed they’d lose their minds. It doesn’t sound very respectful. Be careful.

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