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People think I’m crazy, warpped, a player, homosexual, too nice.

I am who I am and with that I’m nice to all, think differnetly, really differently, then others. Also some others find me scary that I’m going to do something magorly treible things. So I listen to all types of music, look at all point of views, and think extermly that other raise their eyebows to me.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

If you want to enjoy the benefits of social interaction, it’s helpful to understand what people expect and what works at a primitive instinctive level.

The book “How to start a conversation and make friends” by Don Gabor is helpful here.

It basically boils down to: understand that everyone is insecure; they will interpret your facial expressions and the way you interact with them personally… they are trying to decide whether you are a threat (ie. whether you are friendly and approachable or not). If you smile, introduce yourself, chat with them about their interests, share you own opinions in a gentle way, don’t take yourself seriously, then you’ll hit it off.

People will interpret a grumpy look or serious look on your face to mean you don’t like THEM or think THEY are stupid. Yeah, I know. But it’s true.

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Take too nice as a compliment.
That means they are just too mean to realize how smart you are.

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Goldenheart offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

yet some people tell me that being too nice is to much. And I smile to everyone, but I do sometime not smile, cuz I want to see if any one would care for others.

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