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My ex wife took a lesbian lover, with children into our home and kicked me out.

I was living on an Island that had housing and permit regulations that worked against me. I had my children separated from me. I met someone and started to rebuild my life. My ex had a 2 and a half year tempestous relationship. I became ill and suffered depression and had to give up work. Due to ongoing difficulties with my ex i left the Island and subsequently moved to my wife’s birth place in New Zealand. I see my children every 10 weeks and speak on Skype regularly. I miss my children so much and feel that i should move to the UK to be closer. However my ex is still being very difficult and making life difficult for my partner and i. What should i do?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

I wish I had more advice for you, but your options are relatively few. You can stay and make it easy or you can go and face the hardships. Only you’ll know which one is right for you. There is one thing, however - as you look back upon your children’s lives, you will never regret having done your best.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (6 days, 5 hours after post)

Have your wife charged with “Emotional Abandonment” and get a type of “No Trespass” on wifies lover… she IS causing conflict in YOUR home? Go to a “Self Help” section at a local court if they have one. If not, post on www.FindLaw.com… It IS your house too?

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