Stolen friend and a broken heart…

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Stolen friend and a broken heart…

Should I be mad at her for choosing to hang out with my sister over me? I was the one who met her first through a project and I really enjoyed her company… but ever since I introduced her to my sister, they got pretty close and eventually, she stopped contacting me and hung out with my sister instead.

I was pissed…still kinda is…I was so jealous to the point that I secretly read their MSN conversations to find out what they were talking about. I was ashamed of my stupidity, yet afterward, I felt happy for them. I can tell that they really like talking to each other, and their conversations were hilarious. It was a bitter-sweet feeling for me, I know I could never match up to my sister when it comes to making friends…

I can’t say that I’ve completely let go of this, because my sister was the one who approached her and stole her from me. She was even mad at me for accusing her of stealing my friend from me. And what made me even more upset is that when my sister mentioned about me to her on MSN, she would always change the subject to something else.

I was hurt… I wanna get over this… but this isn’t the first time that my sister stole someone important to me…I wanna cry…wanna blame her…but wth, I can’t.

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Cabiano 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

This is hard. Having a more socially adept sibling can be tough.
I’m glad you’re not totally furious. That would be bad.
For now, there’s not much else you can do. Muddle through and find you’re own friends.
At the very least, you can come and rant here. Here, we are all friends.
In case you didn’t notice, you’re friend changing the subject probably means she feels bad about dropping you.
Your sister bringing it up means she meant no harm.

Help me with: I’m desperately close to a coffin of hope.

BaconByAnyOtherName 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

just tell her you think shes a good person and youd like to hang out more often.

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Atlanta, GA, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

i agree with what cabiano said.

i think you should just let it go.
maybe get closer with your sister, if your not already close.
also try to make some more friends, and well before you let them meet your sister get close to them…make sure they love you to death first!

Help me with: love doesn’t stop here.

Twerty 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

There’s nothing you can do. You can’t ‘fight for a friend back’ with the other ‘friend’. It just won’t work. All you can do is move on. And you likely never will be fully happy about their relationship.

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