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Am I a horribal person?

Do you think I deserve to punished in the worst of ways? I lied, I lied to someone who I consider to be a friend. I lied about my name, my car, and my past relationships. Now he tells me he’s into me and I feel like I need to tell him the truth. I know that if I tell him it’ll hurt him, he’ll be so angry with me and I’ll be hurt too.
I brought this on myself. I feel so unworthy of this life because I lied to such a sweet and honest person. I deserve major hell for this don’t I?

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[think peace] offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Horrible*

and yes you do deserve to be paid back. it’s called karma, and it’s got you in it’s grips this very second.

heres your choices..

1.keep lying, make things worse.
2.push him out of your life. and never look back. so you won’t get hurt, but yet he still will.
3.tell him the truth and take the pay back like a man.

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

He has every right to be upset with you. You should be truthful with him now. Ask him to forgive you.

Why did you lie to him to begin with?

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Do u have a condition where u lie? There is such a thing… if not why why why

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selfinflicted offline Unverified User #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

If you were me I’m sure you would have lied too. I bet he wouldn’t have been interested in me had I not lied about a few things. It was my chance to re-invent myself, become the person I wanted to be. But now I feel bad because I didn’t expect this. I just wanted a chance to be someone special for once…

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[think peace] offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

you can re-invent yourself anytime you want…but do it for real. just don’t make up a new person, become who you want to be…and you are special.

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Bubbly offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Denver, CO, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

omg! whyyyy!!!!!

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Shame on you you should go to Church and confess all your Sins and donate a few hundred bucks in to barbymans Account.. He’ll forgive you in writing…

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 42 minutes after post)

selfinflicted wrote:
If you were me I’m sure you would have lied too. I bet he wouldn’t have been interested in me had I not lied about a few things. It was my chance to re-invent myself, become the person I wanted to be. But now I feel bad because I didn’t expect this. I just wanted a chance to be someone special for once…

You are someone special! You are uniquely you. If he would not of been interested in you if you didn’t lie, then you don’t want to be with him. You want a person who will appreciate you for who you are.

I agree with Think Peace, you can become the person you want to be, for starts, don’t lie any more.

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scary doll offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Illiterate, but not horrible.

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selfinflicted offline Unverified User #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (17 hours, 41 minutes after post)

sorry but thats kind of unfair to call me illiterate. i have dyslexia. so thanks for that. it’s a real edo booster right now.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (20 hours, 43 minutes after post)

heh you know it’s kinda hard to believe that…with your post saying about how you lie a lot. and dyslexia is a reading problem not a spelling problem.

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