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Boyfriend is going away for two weeks

He’s going away with his friends to Salou, they’ve gone before. They go away every year. I’m not worried what they’ll get up to. It’s just the matter of communication. I don’t expect him to text me everyday because it would cost a lot for him, but how much should I expect from him? Should I ask him to text me at least once a day, or call me every other day or something? I’m so accustomed to hearing from him daily, it’s going to be torture! But I don’t want to seem demanding.

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Wannabe. offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

I think calling every other day seems reasonable.

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music_lover.. offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

I agree with calling every other day.
I’m sorry, I know it’ll be hard. Just focus on the fact that he’ll be back soon enough. Try not to think about him too much though, that’ll make you sad :(
Just wait for his call, and let him know you miss him lots.
He’ll be back in no time :)

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

Well, now it’s time for you to do the town and party everyday!

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lanuit28 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (5 days, 2 hours after post)

well i would say have him call when he gets there so you know he is ok it fine for you to want to know that he got there and then just ask him to call you or text every now and then just so that you kow he is ok that way you don’t sound like a ***** by saying call me every night and then if you want to call him cus you want to see what he is doing all you have to say is just calling to make sur every thing is ok and you were haveing a good time

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

two weeks is nothing, if you really think that you can’t live without hearing from him for 2 weeks, you should really get a grip.

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