So, I lied to my girlfriend about divorcing my wife who is having my baby. - Help.com

… well it was really REALLY wrong for you to lie to her.

prove to her that you can be trusted. i can not tell you how, thats your decision, the more effort and thought you put in to it the better.

Sounds like you need to work on honesty in general. No more lying or cheating. Come clean with everyone.

She doesn’t trust you while you were cheating on your wife with her? SHOCKING!

You need to sort this out, quick. You’re a father now, so regardless of how awful of a person your wife is, you’ve got some responsibilities that you can’t deny and some of them are going to involve your wife, at least for the next 18 years. Personally, I’d rather see you settle all this before your son or daughter is old enough to know better. If you already know things are hopeless, there’s really no point in driving an innocent human being through your river of chaos. And don’t even think about trying to skip out on the kid, cause they’ll find you…

Anyway, as for your girlfriend, she has every right not to trust you, as does your wife for that matter. I sincerely hope that she, at least, knows what kind of schmuck she married and isn’t holding out for a chance of ways. The only way you’ll even *deserve* a second shot at this is to legitimatize the divorce proceedings and make a genuine commitment to her. Otherwise, you’ll just be screwing her over while she waits endlessly for you to grow up. At this point, it appears that there are potentially 2 other women waiting for that, so she might as well get in line.

Seriously. Figure this out.

Try and give her something like flowers and a box of chocolates and if that dont work get back to me alright!

Make her Pregnant to ….

your welcome