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I’m in a love triangle.
A while back, I met this guy Mike and when I first met him I wasn’t particularly attracted to him or anything. Anyway, we became good friends and then I met his best friend Jason. Jason was extremely inexperienced in relationships, which came to a surprise to me because he was good looking. Anyway, I ended up hooking up with Jason and not thinking of the consequences until one day he brought up the question of whether or not we were gonna start dating. I didn’t want a relationship, and we stopped hooking up and I got over him because I hadn’t really gotten all that wrapped up to begin with. Anyway, so… with time my friend Mike and Jason and I became a little trio, we were always together, always hanging out, until for some reason I ended up becoming sexually attracted to Mike. I started spending tons of time with him, while Jason began to feel more and more pushed away, while somehow managing to like me more and more. Eventually, I was avoiding Jason all together because he had started to get extremely upset, but me avoiding him made him more upset, and he eventually caught on that Mike and I had a thing starting. Mike and I hooked up, and we have been for about a month now… and Jason knows.. and he’s upset. Jason says he’s in love with me. I don’t know what to do, because I am really into Mike and I want us to like become official and exclusively with one another, but Jason is in love with me and cannot snap out of it. Jason, who basically only has one goal in his life, to make me happy… is completely standing in the way of me being happy dating Mike. Jason is such a great guy, but he isn’t who I want and I don’t know what to do. He will REFUSE to go on dates with any girls I suggest and, calls me drunk all the time saying he’s sorry for liking me so much. It’s getting ridiculous. Can anyone offer anything to help me?
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