So here I am, 30 years old looking to start all over again. - Help.com

So here I am, 30 years old looking to start all over again.

So what do I do? I quit my job, move back closer to home, where friends and family are. Yet, when I return, I realize that I do not have the same friends I had when I left, and my family is different than I had hoped them to be. Is it me that is different, am I no longer the friend to the friends? My question is, “how do I make sense of it all?” Which way is north people?

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greenie offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

y ru trying to relive the past

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dannesse offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t say that I am trying to relive the past, but somehow, now that you mention it, the past seems to catch up to me and I wind up getting caught in it. Funny thing is, that is the last thing I want coming my way; as I’m sure is for many people.

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greenie offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

people change, so do friends,so do family, sometimes it doesnt make sense why

having said that, i dont think i have

but i’m sure everyone else would think different– but i’m really the same

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slm offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (21 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Maybe it takes time to settle in where you are, and after a while you will be able to get on with them again

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