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About a boy: Hi_Sai’s first dilemma as a “taken” female

Okay. So I’m seeing this guy he’s really nice and smart and funny. :) And d*** cute to boot!!!

But the problem, you see, is with my last ex. (I’ve had two boyfriends before this one. One was 4 months long, the other was 11 days long)

This regards the 11 day ex.

Now you see, I’m very happy with my current guy. Beyond belief actually. And the big shocker is I’m ALLOWED to date this one. (Yay!)

But…I was checking my ex’s profile out of curiosity (since he’s like…shunned me since we broke up) and BAM. He’s dating my best friend… That was a little stab to the heart right there…I’m a little mad. I mean, I didn’t like the guy THAT much (wasn’t in love with him or anything) but…My friend lied to me! She said she wasn’t interested in him.

I mean, I am a little happy for them (I guess) but I’m still very very frustrated and there is still a little flame of anger burning deep inside me.
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Oh. And I’ll probably be talking about the new boy. :) We shall call him “The boy”.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe your friend was scared of hurting you, in which case she shouldn’t have got with him. What a ***** :P

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

yea, I think the other friend was worried about you getting mad, and then used a bad plan of not telling you, which only made you mad.
I say forgive, forget and be happy for them.
your new guy looks cool too if that was him in that other picture on FB, no offense to you, but both the other ones either looked like “player” wannabes or the dumb jock style.
and neither seemed to know anything about keeping a relationship afloat, lets hope this one does

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

This one reminds me of you actually :) He knows a lot about computers and he’s a half breed. I think you’d like him. Only thing I don’t like about him so far is that he’s a Mac basher.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

apple!!
those mother ******* wont let me buy the new iphone at regular price just because I have the 3G
I bought their freaking phone TWICE now and they want to charge me more than double for this one now!
plus WHERE THE HELL IS RIGHT CLICK?
/rant
that is all

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

lol i phones suck, check out the new HTC’s

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

Not you too! Dx

Text the phone. Mom is making me get off x\

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

HTC? yea, no thanks.
plus, I don’t think it’s on AT&T which is my network

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