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Some one can give me advice please.

Well, I want to find a job so I can earn some money, im looking to buy my own house, but I have this problem my parents when I don’t have job they say things alot bad that hurts me alot like your lazy and that’s not really when I weak up I always clean my parents home clean the floor washing the plates etc..
And when I found a job and I go and told them they go angry with me..
I want help me can some one help me please…
Thanks

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friggen sir tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Your parents sound like bastards.

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friggen sir tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

No offense to my bastard sword. *pats bastard sword*

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 741 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I know!!
I know!!

But what I have to do,
what ever I do they get angry if I don’t work angry with me and if I work angry with me and they don’t give me pocket money

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friggen sir tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

You should probably work and say you don’t?

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 741 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i want to work and earn money but
they when i dont have work say to me alot of things that hurt me and when i find a job they get angry with me,and they dont give me pocket money not even for a bus tripe NOTHING!!!!

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 741 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

If i work and dont tell them they get angry beacuse say to me that im lying and hide things from them
My boyfriend gives me some money so i can live with that and they ask me where i have get those money for pay the bus tripe!!
and when i say they give them to me my bf
they so,go and tell him to give you the money his a busted,i hurt alot.
They say alot of things that hurt me about everthing especialy about the one i love.

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dx_harsh offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I don’t think taking money from your bf and being dependent on that is a good thing.. I have seen a friend of mine get burned over that..
There are enough part time jobs out there (depending on your home/age) that you can do for extra pocket money.. This way your parents won’t know either..

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 741 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

I know i know my byfriend give me money so i can pay bus where i want to go,beacuse my parents dont give me pocket money.
but if i go work by the back of them when they found out they got angry with me alot
when i was working i dontsay to them how much im earning beacuse one day she told me that i have to pay her i dont know for what???

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friggen sir tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

You should move out.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 741 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 5 minutes after post)

cant i dont have that age that i can move out.!!
I wish i have that iage
but god is listen to me and im feeling the days goes faster..and a few mounths more and i be FREE!

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michelleliz_opwa offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

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I will pray for you but also pray to God to change your parents to understand you.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 741 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Thank you Michelleliz!!

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oliviapag online Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 7 hours after post)

Your parents sound really mean they should stick up for you no matter what
have you told them how you feel ???? and btw thanks for your great advice :)

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