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Right, this is gonna sound crazy lol.

I met someone a little while ago and hardly know them but cant stop thinking about them! I feel like im getting obsessed! He showed some interest in me but ive started thinking of going to his town and going to the pubs there with a friend to hopefully bump into them but then i think if he did see me around his area (about 20 mins away from mine) hed think i was strange lol so id need a good excuse to be there!

What should I do??

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Oh great, a stalker. I hope I’m not he. D:

But anyways you should probably tell them that your stalking them and that you want to love them forever n’ such and see how they react.

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Only_Me offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

lol dont think that would help! lol should I ‘accidently’ bump into them at the pub or just leave it completely and hope ill stop thinking about them??

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Go talk to them, tell them how you feel. *pat on head with rolled up book*

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JaneRoe offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

yea, worse case scenario, he turns you down. at least you’ll know and there’s a chance the feeling is mutual :)

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

Been there done that :) but at the end of the day I believe in Serendipity if it’s gonna happen it will happen when you are least expecting to see him, you could go to his town and not even see him, just enjoy yourself

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5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

lol thank yoou, but what excuse can i use to be in their local? lol

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I wish I had a stalker :(

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

SirTannen wrote:
I wish I had a stalker :(

I had one once it was scary and not fun at all :(
You could just say someone recomended that pub to you so you decided to try it or that you were just passing on your way somewhere else but where having so much fun you hadn’t managed to leave yet, whatever you say he will probably realise your game tho, my bf always says girls send out these fishing lines and the guys can see them so grab them :) like just after we first met we just so happened to be shopping the same day a the same time ;) he knew what I was up to and grabbed the hook

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5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

there is one problem though….hes married! So i would only wanna see him to talk to him…hmmm and gaze at him! I know I wouldnt/couldnt do anything but would just love to see him one last time :) ???

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

wow lol

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Anonymous #
5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

lol

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

As long as it’s just looking and who knows what other new and interesting people you may meet in his local

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5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Thank You both for your answers :)

I will keep you updated lol

xx

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Me and Dr. Cake are awesome.

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Oh I’m a Dr now :)

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (11 hours, 26 minutes after post)

call him be flirty thts wat i do.,.

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4 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Hope you 2 get t read this you wont believe it lol
i ended up going with a friend and i didnt bump into the guy i wanted to but instead met someone else who is gorgeous and lovely :)
were seeing each other at the min so WOW lol

thank you thank you xxxxxxxxxxx

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 4 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Wooow Thats great, I am so please to hear that, what did I tell you about meeting other new and interestting people, glad it has all worked out for you

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