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Look just do your part and tell her what you did wrong and that you were right. Try to get her attention by saying all of your faults instead of saying sorry. Like sometimes I slip and I never mean what I say honestly. Your my friend and I want to continue to be friends with you. Don’t let this ruin our friendship hear me out and be like you know…….say everything I listed up there.

Um….do you have her phone number? leave her a voice mail and if not try messaging her again with caps on your subject and put a sad face. I mean were you mad at the time. If so just be like whenever im mad I never mean what I say. Try to get her attention.

I mean that she was right Lol sorry about that tell her you were wrong and she was right okay

Well normally when someone is upset they don’t like reading emails. Its best that you do see her in person. But as I always like to say exspect the unexspected. Say you will see her, I wish for you the best.

So how mad is she exactly did she say anything back toward you upsettingly?

Are you sure you want someone like that to be your friend? I don’t want to offend you in anyway, but shesh I wouldn’t like that i’d stop talking to that person.

Trust me i’ve been there, although I mean relationship wise. Man you need that in your life forreal. Next thing you need is someone that will try to hurt someday. I don’t know her or anything, but seriously you need someone that is twofaced. You need a friend that is true. Or just dead honest because even if they are dead honest atleast you know that its the truth. Even if it hurts, and if someone is going to be a whole different person in your face. Whats the need to be friend? KNow what I mean?

What i feel is that, if she is your real friend, even she should also try to get in your shoes and think what might have went wrong. But it seems that she doesnt care your friendship. Do you really want to continue such friendship?

End it now before you end up the hurt one…thats what i’d do stay away from pain. I hate being sad, cause I just got out of a long relationship it hurts so bad. I know its different cause its just friends, but seriously. You don’t need this if you guys are going to fight like this. Not healthy to be in your lifestyle.

rebel101 wrote:
i want to…just guess sshe doesnt???? idk what to do

Hey the efforts should be from both the sides. If she doesnt value your friendship why you even care for it. Dont take me wrong. And if you really want to continue, you drop an email and tell her what you feel. Dont keep an expectation that she will reply but tell your side clearly. If you know her number, just go and call her, if she dont listen to you, go and drop a message.

I don’t know what to tell you. I mean look its not good to have eachother upset at one because of something that isn’t so important. There should be less fighting and more communication. Good communication is good friendship…

rebel101 wrote:
shes shy….she wouldnt even answer the phone and shed read email but wont reply….soo…idk what to do

Bit confused here, if she is so shy, then i dont think she is really upset with you.
And As i said even if you write an email and dont receive response, dont worry, she will comeback to you. Now dont think too much about it.

Worried about loosing her?

rebel101 wrote:
ok….im just worried…

hey friend, dont worry too much, she will soon get back to you :)

Say what? Thats confusing….

Alright look don’t think too much let whatever happen happen just let things flow on its own. When you see her at church don’t go to her, but make it seem like you do want to talk to her. Like wave, but have a concerned look on your face. Try making eye contact with her so she can see that your trying to get her attention. Like hey look I wanna talk, but make that happen with your body language.

chin up, alright? So how old are you?

I feel like a baby lol i’m like 17

Nooo too young and naive at this age. Haha I think too much for my age too I hate it. 21 man must be awesome..get to do this and that.

Lol I care too much for people I loved so yeah..hard for me to act mean. Its not in my nature.

hey rebel, i hope you will get back your friend, good night and sweet dreams. :)

I’m getting tired ima get to sleeping.

Just my professional oppinion,
but it sounds like shes over-reacting.

Sounds like you’re both over reacting… are you twelve? Grow up.

That’s happened to me before. I fought with my friend constantly, and her dad still dosen’t like me.

Silly Rabbit, Friends are fo’ Ninjazombierabbits.

Fighting with friends is rough. Fighting with your best friend might as well be the end of the world. Apologizing over and over again might just make her more upset. The last time I got in a fight with my best friend (not the fight we’re currently in, the one b4), I apologized over and over again at school, and he ignored me. I went home, and I emailed him ONE email, and I told him how much of a friend he meant to me. On Monday, I apologized once, and he said “its okay”.