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so yes..

i am really super good friends with a bunch of teenage guys in a band. i do their lights for them and i help out and go to every single one of their shows. if they need water, i will pitch in a few bucks so they can get something.. well, you get the point. i would do anything with these guys.

never once have i gotten a thank you or a hint that they appreciate what i do for them. sure, its not a lot, but its enough that i feel i deserve recognition for this. but, just recently they told me i couldnt go on their mini tour because there wasnt “enough room” when there has been plenty of room in the past.

i am sick of being their doormat, but i am really good friends with two people who are actually very nice to me (who are also in the band.) i want to still hang out with them because i always do have a lot of fun, but i always feel bummed when they act like they dont care. also, i am in it for the music and the scene. so i cant just drop everything.

what should i do?

let me know what you think, and thanks for reading my novel, guys . :)

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highencast offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (10 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Have they let you go with them before on other tours? I think that the best thing you should do would be to talk to your two good friends in the band. Try to ask them to influence the other band members into accepting you more. Hope that helps!

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