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how old are you?

Talk to us. How are you trying to cope with this situation?

You gotta be strong…you may be just 15, but, unless you’re not strong, you sibling too will get worried. I don’t whether you could do to stop the argument between your dad and mom. But, you could calm it down like asking your relatives help(I don’t knw whether it is possible)
But, you have to be stay focused on yur life and throwing things won’t help, you may end with having a stressful life, like mine. Throwing didn’t helped me either.
Be strong and don’t lose yourself.

Bee, sad to say your having to cope with “Adult issues” here. Why don’t you sit down and write a letter, telling Mum and Dad your true feelings and fears. Often Adults get caught up in their own lives and forget what an impact this is having on the children.
You probably think that Dad wont care, but when he has time alone, he may well read your letter and realize what his actions are doing to his family.
I don’t know all the details, only what you’ve said here, but I think he needs to know how you feel. Don’t get into an argument with him, stay calm, give him the letter and say Dad I need you to read this. I can see by this that whats happening is upsetting you, this shouldn’t be your burden to carry. This may or may not change the situation, but when he’s had his fling, he may just give thought to whats important in his life. :-)

My parents divorced, it is a very difficult thing to go through.
I myself am beginning to wonder if there is anything I can do to resolve family issues. Sometimes you just have to accept things, even if they hurt. Maybe your parents still love each other and can work things out, but you can’t FORCE them to and neither can your siblings. All you can do is love them and comfort them both. taking sides is not the answer unless ONE OR THE OTHER is truly, truly the one to blame for it all. This is rarely the case, relationships are a two way street.

I may not be the best person to help you, I’m going through some issues of my own here. I wish you the best of luck and I want you to be strong for yourself, because ultimately your the one you have to care for above all.