Ahhh I feel like such an idiot.

Hello users,Im Sandy

Ahhh I feel like such an idiot.

I can’t even explain I’m just so incredibly f**king frustrated. Someone…just talk to me. Just calm me down and help me out. I’m so f**king confused right now.

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Hello users,Im Sandy edited this post 5 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

ahhh i feel like such an idiot. I can’t even explain I’m just so incredible f**king frustrated.

Help me with: Some advice please (:

Hello users,Im Sandy edited this post 5 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

ahhh i feel like such an idiot. I can’t even explain I’m just so incredibly f**king frustrated.

Help me with: Some advice please (:

Hello users,Im Sandy edited this post 5 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

Ahhh I feel like such an idiot. I can’t even explain I’m just so incredibly f**king frustrated. Someone…just talk to me. Just calm me down and help me out. I’m so f********* confused right now.

Help me with: Some advice please (:

Sir Tannen 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

What happened?

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LoneWulf 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

Confused bout what?

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Hello users,Im Sandy 8 #
CA | 5 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

Thanks for replying, I know it’s late. Anyways I had a little to much to drink a couple days ago and I invited this guy to join in with me and the people who I was with. He’s been interested in me for a while now but after having a very difficult break up on my part I don’t know how I feel about him or, in general, any relationship. But after having too much to drink I acted like a complete a** and pushed him and screamed and him and said horrible things. Today we talked and he seemed pretty upset but asked if I even considered dating him, in which I answered yes. But I’m not even sure if I am…I’m also worried about what it is going to be like once I’m back into another relationship since my ex. In addition, I’m stressing over the complete jerk I made myself seem and though I apologized many, many time he still seems pretty fired up about it (which I don’t blame him for). So I don’t even know what the hell I’m asking but I just don’t know what to do.

Help me with: Some advice please (:

LoneWulf 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

It seems like your over complicating things, yes you made a jerk of yourself. Everyone does especially when they are hurt and they hit the bottle. You dont have to date this guy, it will hurt him less if you blow him off then start a relationship thats bound to fail. Thats just my two cents

1. Dont date the guy if you feel like he is a rebound, or your not sure if you want to date him. Either you do or your dont.
2. You made an A$$ of your self, it happens we all do it. I am sure he has made an a– of himself at some point or another.

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Sir Tannen 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 5 months, 1 week ago (42 minutes after post)

Just say your a mean drunk, and probably don’t overdrink again lol, it turns your liver tissue into scar tissue, and also can have fatal side effects if abused to often or to much. Alcoholism is a disease, and alcohol is a drug that can be ODed.

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Hello users,Im Sandy 8 #
CA | 5 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

well honostly he wouldn’t be rebound. I’ve given myself a good 6 months to myself and I may do have feelings for this guy. I just really don’t know how I feel. I just feel like I don’t know what I should be doing right now. I know this could never happen but I just wish somebody could tell me whether I should try it out with this guy or not. I don’t even know if I like him…or ever will but I feel like it’s been so long I deserve to move on and try it out. btw I don’t thing you understand the level of a** I’m talking about. I was probably the biggest b**** he’s ever seen before.

Help me with: Some advice please (:

gr8bsmil 8 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

from what I gather you aren’t ready for a new relationship just yet and you feel guilty for acting out your anger on him and now you don’t want to reject him so you won’t hurt him further. Trust me, He will and you will be hurt worse later if you are not honest with him and yourself about your comitment to this relationship.

Hello users,Im Sandy 8 #
CA | 5 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

No I wasn’t acting out my anger towards him. I have no anger from my previous relationship. It’s not that I’m hurt therefore I want to be single, it’s because I just find most relationships waistful and will end in a pointless, painful break up. But I do miss being in a relationship and I feel like maybe I do want this guy more then I think. I don’t even know. I just want to make the best descion. Alot of it is because my ex was a really great guy, so I end up comparing all guys to him, but in the end he left me so I really just need to stop thinking of how much of a match made in heaven we use to be. God I don’t even know…

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cathy012 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

What you are going through is called life. We all have a days, moments and yes, some even have years of pure hell. It’s OK to be mad at the world when you’re not happy with it. That’s normal. What you did to that guy as far as screaming and pushing and saying terrible things to him? Well, all you could do is apologize to him for that, and let him know that this is not the time. You do; however, need friends right now. You need the laughter and the fun that only good friends can give you right now. Enjoy your free time!!! Have a ball!!!! Life’s too short!!!

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