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ok so i mean i’ll tell you the whole story the love

of my life we met nov.7.2008 and we went out for three months.she broke up with me she thought she liked somebody else but she relized that she LOVED meand she said”I love you i just thought that guy was cute you know,we have way more than that i love you and i dont want to leave again and i won’t” well 2 months later this time she thought she was makeing me unhappy (talk about communication problems) i was just scarred because of her first break-up and she broke my heart agian then after 2 grulling months for both of us she came back again at the begging of spring break and we’ve been togather since then its so so much diffrent now i love her she loves me but when i think about certain things i get really down and sad. its hard to trust she won’t leave agian ou know i just want somebody to help me get over this unsure feeling and i know i cant i took her back because i love her so please help me figure this out Thank You

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iridium offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (2 hours, 51 minutes after post)

The two of you should talk. A lot. Don’t run away, but don’t get back together until trust is established.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (8 hours, 47 minutes after post)

I totally hear you.. it’s challenging dilemma to face. I think it’s extremely difficult to gain trust back, but something that may help you feel better is that, I have never come across those who have been together for years and years and had never had any problems.. granted these things shouldn’t happen early on in a commitment, if they do, you can hope that in the grand scheme of things, it won’t be a problem. Also, something else to help you gain trust, if you are ’suspicious’ of anything about what she does, talk to her about it! This is really important since you thinking defensive may blow an innocent misunderstanding out of proportion. Good luck.

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