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how do i keep a relationship going past summer?

summer is here and i dont want to lose the relationship i have with my boyfriend, but that always proves to be difficult for me because of my parents cuz im not able to go out a lot and because of summer courses? we talk on the phone, but what is some good advice for keeping a good relationdhip through the summer?

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Jr. offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

That’s going to be hard if you can’t go out. Going out to parks, concerts in the park, caravels, bowling, roller blading, bike riding, I can go on for ever. Ask your parents to let you out, once you’re out be responsible, have fun and follow your curfew.

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5 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

how old are you?
old enough for sleepovers?
do that then. if your relationship is deep enough

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

hahaha…im 16 and my parens let me go out every once in a while but we’re used to being together everyday….but the sleepover thing sounds like fun

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

liz9331 wrote:
hahaha…im 16 and my parens let me go out every once in a while but we’re used to being together everyday….but the sleepover thing sounds like fun

That sounds nice to have a family that loves you that much to want to be with you almost every day. Lucy You. I’m happy for ya

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

no i meant my boyfriend and i are used to being together everyday, so its kinda hard to see each other once a week

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

liz9331 wrote:
no i meant my boyfriend and i are used to being together everyday, so its kinda hard to see each other once a week

great, so you could spend half the summer at his place half the summer at yours.
swap every week. could be fun!
if the parents agree, of course.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

Oh, If you and your boyfriend see each other every day, then why would you want to see him once a week? This doesn’t make sense to me. Are you saying now that school is out you will only be seeing each other once a week, and you need advise on how to keep the relationship going?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

hahaha..i wish they would, but thats way past their boundaries

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

liz9331 wrote:
hahaha..i wish they would, but thats way past their boundaries

who knows?!
no harm in asking

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

thats exactly what i mean… the prob is that when in school we can always go places after school or just be there, but now that its out, well its kinda hard for me to get away from my house with my parents permission…it makes it more complicated than if i was already somewhere like school

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Oh, a good relationship…coz I was going to say to “put-out!” C’mon girl. what kind of a question is that? don’t be in a relationship and confining a season to it just for the sake of one. If you guys like each other then great. If not, the right one will come along. A relationship controlled like that isn’t worth having.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

I think what gr8bsmil is trying to say, is let it flow. What happens, happens and you shouldn’t worry about trying to control the relationship to keep the guy.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

put out and good communication

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gr8bsmil offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

SayItsSo wrote:
put out and good communication

cheeky monkey :P lol

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