Love help: Okay, so my girlfriends parents made her move away. - Help.com

do you no why they sent her away?

moved cus of dads job

What do u need to know?

I don’t think it’s that they don’t care, I think they just see it as ridiculous, and a threat you won’t carry out. And, no offense, but it’s not very mature of you to threaten about moving. Look, if you’re eighteen or over, get a job, and go after her! But if not, then there is not much you can do but try to find out why they sent her away. If it’s for her best interest, I say you’re just gonna have to suck up dealing with a long distance relationship. Yes, they are hard, and yes, sometimes, it sucks, but you know what? Get over it. If you truly love her, it won’t matter. If it’s nothing to do with her best interest, try getting another adult to talk to them, though it may not result as well as you want. Whatever you do, just take a calm, rational approach to this. Heck, throw in something about how much you love her. If they don’t see this, tell them, “I don’t care if you don’t believe me. I love her, and I know that. I don’t need to prove myself. I love her, and if she isn’t coming back now, I’ll wait.”

You seem like a nice person, so good luck!

If it’s for her Dad’s job, there’s not much you can do, except wait, I suppose. Here’s something to live by: “Immature love says, I love you, because I need you; mature love says, I need you, because I love you.” Think about that. Also, if you really do love her, you can wait. So can she.

Therein lies the problem. I can wait. I can wait forever if need be. But she is the one that is handling things badly. Ive talked her out of suicide 3 times already, and ive had her parents get her into therapy groups. None of this is working very well. So now im trying to get her back here with me.

live is hard and then u die…get a new gf or deal with it cuz she’s not comen back.

SayItsSo, no offense, but you seem like a pessimist.

Snarfasaurus, once again, you seem like a really nice person, so I’m going to be straight forward with you. If she’s handling it badly, you need to continue to be supportive. Don’t fuel her angst. Just support her, and let her know you’re here for her, and you love her.

As long as Im breathing ill be there to support her. The only thing im worried about is that it wont be enough. After the separation lasts for a while she may start to lose feelings for me and start not to listen to me anymore. Im afraid of what happens after that. Im trying to schedule times to go and see her, but my finances are a bit…not good.
And mai, i live in texas, she moved to north carolina, the cheapest way there is by airplane.

It’s really sweet how much you obviously love her, and I think that love, be it mature, or new, can overcome anything if it’s sincere. If she loves you the way you love her, I don’t think that she will stop loving you, and if she does, it doesn’t mean she won’t listen to you. If you’re her first love, you’ll always be close in her heart. Relationships aren’t always perfect. You have to work together for a lasting relationship, and if you two work together, it will work out.

I guess thats all i can do. Thanks

XxBittersweetLife13x wrote:
If it’s for her Dad’s job, there’s not much you can do, except wait, I suppose. Here’s something to live by: “Immature love says, I love you, because I need you; mature love says, I need you, because I love you.” Think about that. Also, if you really do love her, you can wait. So can she.

Truer words haven’t been said on this thread. It hurts that she is gone and her parents are the ones that separated you two, however this give you both the opportunity to grow separately and if the love is as strong as you say it is then you both will wait for each other.