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how long have you felt like it hun?

Have you ever considered going to councilling? They can be great to talk and they can really truly understand what you are going through and feeling at the moment :)

Hey honey, where has it sprug from? You ever felt like this before?

SInce i was born it was in my nature to try to help people the best i can whatever it took from me. Money, food, clothes, it was no matter… i never felt appreciated. Its amazing how when someone gives so much of their self to help people, and the people start to see that you so giving and then start to take advantage of that. Worst feeling possible!

~willard~ wrote:
SInce i was born it was in my nature to try to help people the best i can whatever it took from me. Money, food, clothes, it was no matter… i never felt appreciated. Its amazing how when someone gives so much of their self to help people, and the people start to see that you so giving and then start to take advantage of that. Worst feeling possible!

i know exactly what you mean…. i give and give and give and i know it’s bad to want something in return so i don’t really expect it… but i do wish someone else made me feel the way i make people feel… not enough appreciation is shown to those who give up their time to care for others =(

I have learn to accept that I will be looking out for myself as well as putting all my energy into others, the only things I get in return are the things I do for myself, so schedule some you time, to watch a film, treat yourself to the things you love or a spa trip, keep giving in the hope you will find peace with the world from it, Try this if this was my post what do you think you would tell me, from your shrink point of view

I understand you completely..

I feel the exact same way..

fruit.n.nut wrote:
oh wow thanks Victoria Sponge! You have lifted me up…i think u understand me…

we both from UK! :D

xx

Maybe it’s a London thing hon :-)
Maybe you should try what I’m doing and escape the ratrace for a while

Well, don’t know if this helps but I’m a shrink in training! and I found there are some techniques that help, imagine someone who you think is similar to you, then just imagine all the problems you have - they have. What would you say to them?

It sounds to me like you are incredibly unmotivated and uninspired by your life at the minute. You need to kick yourself up the backside and force yourself to get out and do things that interest you!!

How are you feeling today?

Sad…

fruit.n.nut wrote:
well i went london…shoped n messed around…saw loads of couples…n now im sad n scared ill end up in an asexual relationship not having any…my life sucks…n i think im being so selfish…perhaps i should help ppl…i duno…

xx

Relationships bring their own set of problems too you know, don’t hang all your hopes on a relationship making you happy, rather try and find something else to concerntrate on untill you find that special someone, are you feeling any better this afternoon?

Fruit n nut your breaking my heart.. Im sorry that your lonely…

:[

i know exactly how you feel Fruit.n.nut i have the similar feelings all the time. I hate looking at myself in the mirror because i’m ugly and i’m terrified of being alone but feel bitter when i’m out and see couples holding hands being happy.

Just think to yourself there isn’t anything wrong with feeling that lonely because other people like me feel the same too

Dont lie to me either.. cause if your not happy i want to know even though it breaks my heart..

Im not happy either.. ive been crying today.. but it gets better eventually thats wat i keep telling myself.. atleast.

It does get better and the crying stops.

fruit.n.nut wrote:
oh yeh i guess i should find something else to concentrate on. I do write a bit when i can, play a few games now and then also…

sigh…went golf today, but wasnt really into it, when everyone brings their partners and it irritates me…

sigh

im selfish i know…but just for a wittle while id like a wittle bit of attention…

:(

xx

Nothing wrong with a little bit of selfishness every now and then hon, um people take their partners to golf, I would never impeach on my bf’s golf time, thats just strange, have some you time, re evaluate things, are you happy with your career goals? That may give you something to concerntrate on

Accept yourself,love yourself,developing yourself.Be a person full of charm.
I am ugly too.Sometimes,It’s a feeling of helpless,frustrate.However,If I always looks like gloom,no one would approach me.So,why not happy,smile?Feel happy.Try to let youself become your best friend.

JUst be happy. Life is for looking into the future not the past x