i am 35 and in love with a 20 year but he’s also my son

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i am 35 and in love with a 20 year but he’s also my

son best friend my son is 19

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emmybean 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

you go girl! rob that craddle!!

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evansent:) 451 #
GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

ok… wheres your hubby?

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Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Cool. You should get with him.

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emmybean 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Pepsi wrote:
Cool. You should get with him.

anyways you only live once!

Help me with: im just wondering …… ok so my sisters mother in law decided to show up to my sisters for my nieces 2nd birthday.

Morally Ambiguous JD 145 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

That is going to **** your son up soooo much… I would probably go for another candidate.

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emmybean 5 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

guys don’t care about stuff like that. look at it this way, if your son came home and said he was dating YOUR friend (him still being 19 the girl being 35)would you care?

Help me with: im just wondering …… ok so my sisters mother in law decided to show up to my sisters for my nieces 2nd birthday.

adenmedin 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

OMG, LOVE IS CRAZY! i can’t help you there but good luck!

evansent:) 451 #
GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

truthfully ,em id rip her head off!

flirtings ok,going beyond that isnt right…
like joshy says,it will screw her son up big time!!

if theres no hubby in the picture&feelings are mutual
you need to speak to your son first&foremost :)

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Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

She could just have a secret relationship with him. If its mutual love why not? If they both love each other that is, and its not some f***** up situation where he’s excited about dating a MILF and she wants a toyboy. lol.

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lostinatoodarkpark 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

is he in love with you too?

think about it .. that boy is 20! how likely is it that a relationship with a 20 year old would last…??!

i dont think its worth doing that to your son’s friendship
it’ll probably be a mess - it’ll affect your son’s relationship to his best friend and also your relationship to your son..

do you really want that?

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Morally Ambiguous JD 145 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

your son will hate you, he will hate his bf, he will have difficulty trusting you around his friends he will have difficulties trusting his friends and he most likely won’t spend so much time around the house…

I doubt very much its a win for anyone involved.

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LoneWulf 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

Joshy woshy Poshy wrote:
your son will hate you, he will hate his bf, he will have difficulty trusting you around his friends he will have difficulties trusting his friends and he most likely won’t spend so much time around the house…

I doubt very much its a win for anyone involved.

^True

Also don’t confuse love with lust i know your 35 and have more life experience than myself however you can still confuse the two at any age.

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juiceyt98 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (22 hours, 6 minutes after post)

i am so glad you guy came straight i think may be a lot of you are rigth hell it’s not worth hurting my son i am backing out thanks guys

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