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READ, LEARN AND BE AWARE !

EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE CHILDREN READ IT TOO!

After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:

ByAngel213:
Hi. I’m glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!

GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much TV.. Why would someone be following you?
Don’t you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz’ I didn’t see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:
Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven’t done that have you?

ByAngel213:
Of course not. I’m not stupid you know.

GoTo123:
Did you have a softball game after school today?

ByAngel213:
Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:
That’s great! Who did you play?

ByAngel213:
We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL

GoTo123:
What is your team called?

ByAngel213:
We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.

GoTo1 23:
Did you pitch?

ByAngel213:
No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don’t want them mad at me. Bye!

GoTo123:
Catch you later.. Bye

Meanwhile…….GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.

Her name: Shannon
Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985
Age: 13
State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.

Shannon didn’t tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn’t want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn’t be so overprotective.

By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.

He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him.. He didn’t look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.

After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon ’s home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.

Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon ’s house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.

Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.

“Shannon, come here,” her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn’t imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.

“Sit down,” her father began, “this man has just told us a most interesting story about you.”

Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!

“Do you know who I am, Shannon ?” the man asked.

“No,” Shannon answered.

“I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123.”

Shannon was stunned. “That’s impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He’s 14. And he lives in Michigan !”

The man smiled. “I know I told you all that, but it wasn’t true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze.”

Shannon was stunned. “You mean you don’t live in Michigan ?”

He laughed. “No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn’t it?”

She nodded.

“I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn’t as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you’ve learned a lesson from this and won’t do it again.. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?”

“It’s a promise!”

That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation..

THIS IS HAPPENING EVERY DAY VIA THE INTERNET….BE SAFE !

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..Minerva.. offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 32 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

God these are depressing days. Remember the good old times when kids could play games outside till dark, walk home alone without a care in the world or fear of pedos lurking around every corner.
Those were the good old days.
I feel sorry for kids growing up now. I really do.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (30 minutes after post)

It really annoys me that there are such sick people in the world. You’ve got to really keep an eye on your own kids now.

Thanks for this story :)

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (57 minutes after post)

Well done for putting this info up…. Every child using the internet chatrooms should read this.

The problem is our children are so trusting, what a horrible situation to get into and thank you for the warning, I will certainly be passing this on to my children

Thank you x

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3 years, 11 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Thankyou

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Sasha, this is something all of us need to consider when we are online. Even those of us who can’t imagine anyone wanting to harm a child, need to be mindful of the questions we ask young people who post and reply on help.com. If I ask a question, I need to remember that anyone can see the answer. After reading this post, I am going to be even more careful to make certain my questions do not inadvertently encourage someone to be more open than they should be.
Do you mind if I invite some friends to your post?

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Cady8907 offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

good post!

that would definitialy be a scary thing to find out… imagine if it werent an officer!

i agree with c-eek

you have to be careful what you say… and ask others lol :S

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 5 hours after post)

Great post, Sasha - thanks for putting this up. I also agree with C-eek - best that we all be careful about helping the youth in here to protect their anonymity.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 5 hours after post)

Awesome post, Sasha. It makes you think about how easy it would be for our kids to be victims without their even knowing. I know that I have also given out personal information on the internet and have lived to regret it; not that anything scary happened, but it was a stark reminder that something scary COULD happen

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 8 hours after post)

Well i don’t know how sick society is getting after i read this .It makes me wonder how lucky i was growing up after the 2ND World War. I remember mum use to send me in the Forest to get some mushrooms nothing happened.people were not out for whatever purpose to murder .They were looking for food and for a better Life.Child Molesters were put on the Wall and shot .Why not bring back this Law.NO of course it has to go through the Legal System .Almost halve a Million dollars a Case .Oh how stupid we become. Imagine China with more then a Billion People if they had a Legal System like ours????Oh don’t get me started…

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 11 hours after post)

Thanks for the invite. I’ve heard that example before.
It is a challenging time, but on the positive we can arm them with a cell phones. Monsters are everywhere and the teens are better to follow the advice of safety.

This is a time when we can tell or help through electronic communication:)

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 14 hours after post)

Scary, scary stuff - please post it on Lum too if you haven’t already. Thanks

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 14 hours after post)

One of the most dangerous games you can play on the net is “truth or dare”. It’s all about intent. Always be careful:)

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Regina, SK, CA | 3 years, 10 months ago (1 week after post)

Thanks for the invite.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

you gave me alot insight on this matter, even though I dont have any children, me been a adult I stll have to be careful online, God forbid if something like that would have happen to me.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

That story was a great reminder for all of us. Thank you!

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