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I cant get over my ex bf.

I am begining to wonder if my bf left me because I have anxiety/depression. I told him before we were intamate of my condition and why I have this condition. Even though he said he would take care of me, my ex bf has an addiction. And his decission have nothing to do with my condition?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (20 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Ahhhh don’t worry about why he left. Maybe his leaving you is a good thing, perhaps you don’t need him in your life at this time. Take the opportunity to work on yourself - if you feel the reason for his leaving is due to your condition then try to work on your condition before making up with him or going into a new relationship.
And try to get yourself out of depression by doing something nice for yourself like going to see Transformers 2 today… or getting a massage- treat yourself like a queen!
And don’t worry about this guy not loving you there are BiLlIoNs of humans out there- and I am absolutely sure that someone loves you just for you with all your wonderful ups and downs.
I Love You!

(in a wholesome platonic way :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (1 week after post)

Thanks Mem. That is very understanding and thoughtful of you. I have been through so much and want to rationalize the relationship between myself and my exbf. Today is the first day I have not been totally obssesed and I did go to see the Transformers. Go Autobots!!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Hi rayemaye!
How are things now? Feeling any better about the situation? I hope you are!
Much Love :)
mem

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks after post)

Hey mem: It is slowly getting better. My inability to let lying dogs sleep has gottern me in a heap of trouble. I am facing felony charges for viol of protective order. I stuck my foot in it this time.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Hmm - what happened… D u want to talk about it?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

not sure what I can say. I feel like I have lost everything. My children a career and home. I have been doing things I normally would not do to easy the pain and regret.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

hmm have you tried to think of where you are going? Where you WaNt to go? perhaps if you make a small plan you probably may not be so easily swayed from ur path.

But most importantly - start being comfortable with urself… It won’t hurt so much and you won’t feel so lost if you love urself and your kids so that you don’t feel the void.

I believe in you Rayemaye you can turn ur life around!

So keep on keeping on - meditate and smile more,
Much Love

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

txx mem

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

;)

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