I’m 21 years old and I have 2 babies, 2 years old and 11 months old, and one on the way.

CampingChristina

I’m 21 years old and I have 2 babies, 2 years old and 11 months old, and one on the way.

I’m about to be evicted from my trailer, cause I can only pay my rent, but I can’t get my lights and water back on, because of not enough income. My rent man wont keep renting to me if I can’t get my utilities back on before the month of June is over. O wish someone could help me, but I live in a small town where theres not any way to get any help. I don’t have a good car that will take me to the place which might help, and then I don’t think they will help me because I don’t live in their city, county, or town. Please, all of y’all pray for me and the babies. I’m so scared of what will happen to me, I have nowhere else to go. My mom lives in the trailer next door to me and she keeps my babies, but shes having bad health and can’t take in another baby, so I need to try and get my utilities back on so I can keep my own babies. My boyfriend who’s the babies daddy wont help us any and he never keeps a job. I feel like my life is so hopeless.

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[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

just start slow, make goals for yourself. You can get through this, and I will pray for you and your kids.

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The Clue 16 #
Minot, ND, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

The first thing to do is stop having kids. You cant take care of the two that you have now, what made you think that you could take care of another one. Move in with your mother so you have a place to live with power and other utilities. Go to your local command labor and get some temp work. You can push a broom, clean an office what ever it takes to make some money. There should be public transportation to get to and from work. Finally I really doubt that anyone will be sending you any money so now it is up to you to make this work. Hope this helps :-)

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

i pray for you and for your angels.!!

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CampingChristina 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Thanks for your prayers. Hey, The Clue, you don’t seem to have much of a clue, do you. Anyways, my mom lives in the trailer next door and she has 2 of my younger sisters, my step dad, and my 2 sons in a single wide trailer. Not to mention my step dads kids and grandkids who come to stay with them from South Decota from time to time. Also, I am not too shy to get a broom and sweep, if somebody would hire me. I can’t even get a maid job at a hotel.motel around here in this small town. No I wouldn’t move back in with my mom. Its enough that she kkeps my babies for me. As for getting pregnant, well I was on the pill, and I for got it one time and this is what happens when you don’t have a perfect memory. This is a small town, like I said, its not running out the behind full of jobs. I do have a want ad out for cleaning houses for anyone to call me if they need their house cleaned or whatever!
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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Contact you local United Way http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=… . You have computer access and time to blog about your situation, so The Clue does have a point about not having your priorities in the right place.

Without power in your home, child protective services could be contacted and your children could be placed in foster care until you can prove you have resources. It is unlikely that your landlord can kick you out right away, but check your rights as a tenent with your area resources (google state and tenent rights).

You are not so far from the Tri-city area, and you do have many resources there. Plannedparenthood will supply you will aids to save you from diseases not just getting pregnant. You can’t forget in the future if the man won’t watch out for you everytime, he won’t be there for the babies. You know this already and have living proof.

Apply to jobs here and post your ad also if it is not already listed http://tricities.craigslist.org/ I would suggest you sell whatever you can there to make due. Best of luck. If you don’t learn to watch out for yourself, no one else is going to do it for you.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 55 minutes after post)

None of those unites ways are around here in Whitwell. There’s no place in Chattanooga, the tri city, Hamilton County, that will help me being here in Whitwell, Marion County. But your right my priorities have been in the wrong place, in the past, now I plan to try and get them straight. I am going to go out and find a job cause I know there out there, thats true. My mom takes care of my babies so I’m not worried about the child sevices taking them. I’d just like to have my bills paid up so I can keep them when I’m not working and I wont loose our home. I did go to a place called Sethra that helps pay utilities around here, but they couldn’t help me cause the utilities are in my boyfriends name and he wouldn’t go with me to get them to help us, so they couldn’t do it. Anyway, I know I need to loose him and it might be best if we lost our trailer and went our seperate ways. He doesn’t wanna get his life together for our sons and this other baby. Thanks for your advice. It is good that its tough advice, that what I need sometimes to make me get out of this dream I’ve been living in of waiting around on a man to make my life better. I need to do it myself.

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