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Okaii, so i think that i like this dude, but he’s is…

.three years older then me, what should i do??

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

3 years is not that big of a deal, seriously. well, depending on your age also. BUT just tell him how you feel. its better knowing and being rejected then never knowing.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

You should definately go down on him. Guys will treat you a whole lot better and you’ll be the most popular girl around…give it a try,huh?

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chippy offline Verified User (2 weeks, 6 days) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 2 days ago (4 months after post)

I don’t see how ‘going down on him’ would make him respect you…it would just make him think your easy, and he’ll tell his mates and you’ll get a bit of a reputation, you’ll have a bit of fun, but then find it hard to settle down later on and find yourself getting hurt.

Three years is nothing when your 19/20’s either.
I used to be paranoid about a guy he was 21 and I was 18…now I would see a 23 year old as a bit more mature and wouldn’t hesitate. Weird huh?!

Just be yourself….

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